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What is Red Tantra and White Tantra?- Practice Yoga - From Body To Spirit - by Submitted on Jul 28, 2008 from Jeff CraftAt the very basic level, Yoga is a scientific system of specific practices which help to balance the Body and Mind. Through regular practice, one begins to improve physical strength, flexibility and overall vitality. As one's body becomes lighter and more flexible, so does the practitioner's ...
Views: 1281(4 votes) - What is Tantra Anyway? - by Submitted on Feb 22, 2010 from Baba Dez NicholsWhen sincere seekers ask “What is Tantra?” we might answer “like Zen, the Tao and Buddhism, Tantra is a path to enlightenment”. But many modern students are stubborn and insist on a mental answer, even if it is a partial answer, which leads to the common assumption that Tantra is some kind of ...
Views: 2736(2 votes) - Exploring the Art of Tantra – (Part 2) Learning How to Extend Your Pleasure - by Submitted on Apr 08, 2011 from Allura JoySome people, especially in the Western region, view sex as a source of recreation rather than a means of transformation. They tend to focus more on the end goal – the destination, rather than the journey. In Tantra, every intimate moment is an opportunity to experience optimum pleasure and ...
Views: 2907(3 votes) - Heavenly Lovemaking - by Submitted on Mar 20, 2013 from Aryana HudsonLOVING ORBIT HEAVENLY LOVE MAKING So many women have had the hidden aspect of the desire to have beautiful intimate experiences that not enough literature has supported knowledge to be available to them to form the concepts necessary for the evolution of mind that knows freedom in ...
Views: 9011(3 votes) - The Lover's Guide to Sensual Breast Massage - by Submitted on Apr 08, 2009 from Maya SilvermanBreast Massage Instructions - The Lovers Guide to Sensual Breast Massage Pleasure Breast Massage Instructions - The Lovers Guide to Sensual Breast Massage Pleasure Author: Maya Silverman Breast massage instructions should be part of male (and female) everyday learning. It's that important. ...
Views: 36119(4 votes) - #1 Tool to Help Your Relationship: Sharing Appreciations - by Submitted on Dec 31, 2012 from Robyn VogelIn this article I'd like to take the conscious communication tools a bit deeper -- and teach you how to skillfully share one of THE MOST VALUABLE love tools: Sharing Appreciations. But not just any old appreciations, any old time -- it needs to be 'right' in order to pierce your sweetie's heart ...
Views: 2277(1 vote) - A Tool for Conscious Communication - by Submitted on Dec 31, 2012 from Robyn VogelDo you wish you could tell your partner what you are feeling more easily? Are you looking for a way to have a productive conversation without playing the blame and shame game? Do your "discussions" sometimes last into the wee hours of the night leaving you exhausted the next day? When you have ...
Views: 2099(1 vote) - Four Steps to Avoid Playing the Blame and Shame Game - by Submitted on Dec 31, 2012 from Robyn VogelWhen you have something important to share with your sweetie, but feel like all you want to do is blame him (or her) here is exactly what you need to move forward. Take these 4 steps with ease: 1. Take 5-10 minutes to journal what you are upset about (don't skip this very important ...
Views: 2420(1 vote) - How to Empty Your Basket of Resentment - by Submitted on Dec 31, 2012 from Robyn VogelAre you ready to go deeper into working on your relationship? Ready to learn how to clear a withhold? Yep. That's right -- a "withhold" - something you are holding back from sharing with your sweetie. You know...how you were angry that he left the toilet seat up? Or she didn't buy your ...
Views: 2196(1 vote) - I Now Pronounce You Connected for Life - by Submitted on Nov 04, 2016 from Robyn VogelAs I grew up, I was very open-minded when it came to matters involving sexuality. I was also very conscious of my spirituality and the sense that someone or something bigger than I was involved in my life. The two most intimate aspects of my identity, however, operated totally separate from each ...
Views: 1604(1 vote) - Lighten Up Or Heavy Up...The Choice Is Yours - by Submitted on Mar 14, 2011 from Wayne KehlHave you ever noticed that a lot of people tend to take themselves too seriously? You know who I mean: • Those folks who huff and puff with righteous indignation whenever they are challenged. • Those people who glare and stare whenever someone says something they believe is ...
Views: 2006(3 votes) - Prostate Ejaculate Massage - How to Give Him a Tantric Healing and Energy Experience - by Submitted on Apr 11, 2009 from Maya SilvermanJust what is it? And is for real? Well i’m here to tell you that it can happen, although it does take a bit of practice. In case you didn’t know, the prostate gland is a walnut sized gland located just under the bladder. It can be felt by placing a finger 2-3 inches into the anus, although it ...
Views: 39359(1 vote) - Sacred Breath & Healing - by Submitted on Aug 05, 2009 from Larry MelamersonSacred Breath is a process that increases your ability to feel and resolve the effects of your karma. The act of sacred processing will help you cleanse and release stored negative energy in your body. Sacred touch activates your Sacred Breath like a match or lighter, igniting ones Kundalini. ...
Views: 4228(3 votes) - Super Seduction Power, We Show You How. - by Submitted on Feb 25, 2011 from Dan ThompsonI'm not a psychologist. I'm not a sexual therapist. I'm also not claiming to be a horribly unattractive guy that has The Magic Formula for seducing women within 15 seconds. I'm actually a Signal Processing Electrical Engineer with a passion for Persuasion Psychology (from a motivational ...
Views: 2282(1 vote) - Tantra 101- The Sexual Eduction You Didn't Get In School - by Submitted on Feb 13, 2011 from Devi WardTantra…a loaded word in today’s society. Misconceptions abound due to the many different interpretations of what Tantric practice actually is. For some Tantra is about learning to communicate more authentically in their relationships, for others it means learning to give & receive heart centered ...
Views: 2426(1 vote) - Tantra And Humanity's Spiritual Progression. Where We Go Wrong And Right - by Submitted on Jun 09, 2011 from David SamuelMany people think that humanity is reaching a higher spiritual level than ever before. I think those people have not been to the historical sites and probably lived through TV and the internet. Certainly there are many things on the internet which simply based on volume and dissemination of ...
Views: 1623(2 votes) - Tantra Massage Tips And Techniques That Will Drive Her To Really Want You! - by Submitted on Jun 22, 2010 from Maurice TateUsing Tantra massage is a great way to grow closer as a couple. This kind of touch isn’t about intercourse, but it is about very intense orgasms that take your time in the bedroom to a whole new level. In Tantric massage, a man’s penis is called Lingam (wand of light), while the vagina is called ...
Views: 7298(1 vote) - The Kama Sutra - by Submitted on Oct 01, 2010 from Luminessa EnjaraWe have all heard the name of one of the greatest love manuals of all time, the Kama Sutra. The history of this book is quite fascinating as it offers us a glimpse into a culture where spirit and sex were seen as complimentary. The Kama Sutra is a book on both love and relationship and takes ...
Views: 2839(2 votes) - What is Chinese Tantra? or Chinese Sexual Qigong - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2011 from Tom McGrewChinese tantra comes from the Taoist practice of sexual arts sometimes called the “bedroom or pillow arts.” The concepts and ideas come from the Yellow Emperor who wrote the basis for all Traditional Chinese Medicine thousands of years ago. Some of the teachings were in the form of dialog ...
Views: 7665(1 vote) - What is Needed to Clear a Withhold - by Submitted on Dec 31, 2012 from Robyn VogelIn relationships, resentment can often build and build. An amazing tool that can help reduce the negative feelings is ‘clearing a withhold.’ In clearing a withhold with your partner, family member, parent, child, neighbor or friend, the following elements need to be present: 1. Safety: ...
Views: 2283(1 vote) - What is Red Tantra and White Tantra? - by Submitted on Apr 20, 2009 from Rev. Keith HallWhat is the diffrence between Red and White Tantra? The short answer is that Red Tantra is focused on sensuality and sexuality, while White Tantra is more oriented towards a spiritual approach. There is also Black Tantra which is obsessed with power and its permutations, e.g., siddhis, ...
Views: 27417(3 votes) - Your Tantric Remedy for Daily Stress - by Submitted on Dec 31, 2012 from Robyn VogelAre you tired from all the running around you do each day? Have you been going and going and going? When was the last time you made love with your partner (or yourself?) I'm going to teach you THE most valuable tool for handling the every day stress. Ready? STOP. What?? (Yep, you read ...
Views: 2892(1 vote) - Hiking - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2010 from Chandi DeviI never think or talk about age because I don’t wish my subconscious to have these preconditioned ideas of what to expect when you are a certain age, and this has worked well for me. My body is healthy and supple and I look/act/feel/think much younger than my years. But while appearing years ...
Views: 3132(7 votes) - Definition of Animal Magnetism - by Submitted on Mar 25, 2011 from Etienne CharlandAnimal magnetism refers to a person's sexual attractiveness or authentic charisma. Simply put, the better a person feels about himself, the better people feel around him, which creates a magnetic presence. The controversy with science is about whether this is due to body language, voice tone and ...
Views: 4235(4 votes) - Sexual Energy - by Submitted on Feb 09, 2010 from Chandi DeviSexual Energy by Chandi Devi ™ © 2005 The World of Tantra.com All Rights Reserved Sexual Energy can be awakened and transmuted through meditation and lovemaking between a man and a woman. The sex act is a divine act in itself. Lovemaking between a man and woman, when entered into with ...
Views: 15530(4 votes) - *** Tantra And Enlightenment: Illumination-The Absolute Brightness of Being - by Submitted on Jan 29, 2008 from Al Link and Pala CopelandIllumination—The Absolute Brightness of Being We are Al Link and Pala Copeland. We have been practicing Tantric sacred sexuality since 1987 and teaching since 1997. Al had the enlightenment experience in January 2008 and within minutes made a direct transmission to Pala. This came after ...
Views: 1921(3 votes) - Dr. Romance: Why am I assumed to be a cougar good for only one thing? - by Submitted on Jun 05, 2011 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I am a single woman in my late 40's. I've had several serious relationships, but unfortunately, although I lived with a couple of them, I've never been married. I have a minor physical disability, a stomach condition, but I am attractive, I look younger than I am, I'm well ...
Views: 2322(6 votes) - Millennials and Intimacy: What’s not adding up? - by Submitted on Nov 12, 2015 from Dr. Elsbeth Meuth, EdD & Freddy Zental WeaverFor the past few years, publications like Mic, The Atlantic, and even TIME have pointed out that millennials have been defined by “hookup culture.” Michelle Adams writes that “hook-up culture is definitely something entrenched in the millennial generation” in her 2012 article for Mic ...
Views: 2756(3 votes) - Let's Talk About SEX, Baby!! - by Submitted on Sep 20, 2009 from Danish AhmedLet's talk about sex, baby Let's talk about you and me Let's talk about all the good things, And the bad things that may be Let's talk about sex - Salt N Pepa (1992, Written by Herby Azor) - - - - - - - - - - Let's Talk About Sex... Sex can be an uncomfortable topic for some people. ...
Views: 3828(5 votes) - *** 10 Steps to Full Enlightenment - by Submitted on Aug 05, 2009 from Al Link and Pala CopelandWhen one who has been enlightened speaks, there are things he can say with relative certainty--as much certainty as is possible while still in a body in this world. There are other things he can say with considerable authority, but not with certainty. There are also things he would like to be ...
Views: 5057(2 votes) - What You Need to Do to Get What You Want! - by Submitted on Dec 31, 2012 from Robyn VogelHere is a simple practice that will help you get what you want in relationship -- in all kinds of relationships actually! Ready? It's just too simple: Say no. Do you say 'yes' when you feel 'no'? Do you avoid confrontation? Does it feel scary when you want to disagree with someone? ...
Views: 2128(2 votes) - *** Massage Strokes - by Submitted on Mar 17, 2009 from Al Link and Pala CopelandIf you are unsure how to begin to give a massage there are a few simple strokes you can learn to master easily. There are some excellent massage videos you can learn from. Long, smooth, firm strokes following the line of muscle up and down his body. Circular motions, ...
Views: 2123(2 votes) - *** Massage Tips - by Submitted on Mar 10, 2009 from Al Link and Pala CopelandMassages are easy to do as well as fun to give and receive. You do not have to have any training to give your mate a thoroughly satisfying massage, although if you would like more guidance there are some excellent books and videos available. Giving each other a massage as a first course of ...
Views: 1635(2 votes) - *** Sexual Anatomy – The Question of Size - by Submitted on Mar 31, 2009 from Al Link and Pala CopelandMost Tantric sacred lovemaking texts substitute more poetic terms to refer to the male and female sexual anatomy. Penis is lingam. Vagina is yoni. There are hundreds of other terms commonly used, such as golden rod, wand of light, jade stalk, tangled garden, honey pot and secret cave. Using such ...
Views: 11960(2 votes) - *** Starting Your Massage - by Submitted on Mar 20, 2009 from Al Link and Pala CopelandAn excellent starting point for a relaxing and invigorating massage is the back. Begin at the base of his spine with your palms on his sacrum (just above his tailbone). Inhale. As you exhale slide your hands up his back on either side of his spine. ...
Views: 1498(2 votes) - ***4 Freedoms Integration Exercise (10): "O" Zone - by Submitted on Jan 08, 2009 from Al Link and Pala CopelandINTEGRATION EXERCISES Exercises To Do Together by Al Link and Pala Copeland "O" ZONE The “O” Zone is the ecstatic orgasmic energy state you are in at peaks of sexual arousal before climax. Your personal power is greatly amplified when you are supercharged energetically in the ...
Views: 1389(2 votes) - ***4 Freedoms Integration Exercise (11): Vows - by Submitted on Jan 13, 2009 from Al Link and Pala CopelandINTEGRATION EXERCISES Exercises To Do Together by Al Link and Pala Copeland VOWS Greatness, beauty, and creation spring forth from commitment. Saying yes unreservedly to your lover, burning all bridges of escape, giving everything you have, and holding nothing back bring you to the very edge ...
Views: 1348(2 votes) - ***4 Freedoms Integration Exercise (15): Under the Sky - by Submitted on Jan 29, 2009 from Al Link and Pala CopelandINTEGRATION EXERCISES Exercises To Do Together by Al Link and Pala Copeland UNDER THE SKY Time for Exercise: 15 minutes to overnight Properties Required: sleeping bags; do a bit of research beforehand to identify some of the constellations of stars that can be seen in your location at the ...
Views: 1339(2 votes) - ***4 Freedoms Integration Exercise (3): Leap of Imagination - by Submitted on Dec 18, 2008 from Al Link and Pala CopelandINTEGRATION EXERCISES Exercises To Do On Your Own by Al Link and Pala Copeland LEAP OF IMAGINATION Beliefs are extremely powerful but not supremely powerful. There is something more powerful than belief. Otherwise no one could ever transcend their limited beliefs and become unstuck. Your ...
Views: 1264(2 votes) - ***4 Freedoms Integration Exercise (4): The Meaning of Life - by Submitted on Dec 23, 2008 from Al Link and Pala CopelandINTEGRATION EXERCISES Exercises To Do On Your Own by Al Link and Pala Copeland THE MEANING OF LIFE A primary function of consciousness is to bestow meaning, to decide what things mean for you personally. Examples include deciding how important something is to you regardless of its importance ...
Views: 1567(2 votes) - ***4 Freedoms Integration Exercise (8): Now and Zen - by Submitted on Jan 02, 2009 from Al Link and Pala CopelandINTEGRATION EXERCISES Exercises To Do On Your Own by Al Link and Pala Copeland NOW AND ZEN A variation of Buddhism that asserts enlightenment can come through intuitive insight, Zen is the simplest, most direct route to enlightenment but one of the most difficult to traverse. In Zen, there is ...
Views: 1464(2 votes) - ***Classic Love Texts and Modern Practices - by Submitted on Feb 19, 2009 from Al Link and Pala CopelandClassic Texts and Modern Practices by Al Link and Pala Copeland The term “sacred sex” may seem somewhat of an oxymoron in western society, a contradiction in terms. Suggesting that you can find your way to God through sexual activity has been a bit like suggesting you can eat your way to ...
Views: 1599(2 votes) - ***Exercise - How to Be Here Now - Or - Love Buttons, Go Ahead and Push Some! - by Submitted on Feb 26, 2009 from Al Link and Pala CopelandSuccess with Tantra lovemaking requires that you go out of your mind and get into your body. This means getting out of thought and into sensation. Here is an incredibly easy but powerfully effective way to rapidly improve the quality of your experience during lovemaking, by helping you get out ...
Views: 1539(2 votes) - ***Exercise - The A or B Game - by Submitted on Feb 17, 2009 from Al Link and Pala CopelandExercise - The A or B Game by Al Link and Pala Copeland Try two different versions of a sexual technique - for example two different tongue strokes in oral sex, two different thrusting maneuvers during intercourse, two different caresses on back or thighs, two different kisses. Refer to one as ...
Views: 1432(2 votes) - ***How To Make First Sex Fabulous Sex - by Submitted on Aug 05, 2009 from Al Link and Pala CopelandHow to Make First Sex Fabulous Sex By Al Link and Pala Copeland - 4 Freedoms Relationship Tantra The heat is on. You can literally feel it arcing between you. Whether it’s an enticing stranger you’ve just met or a special someone you’ve been slowly getting to know, ...
Views: 4322(2 votes) - ***Sacred Sex - A Path Of Union, Celebration & Wholeness - by Submitted on Aug 05, 2009 from Al Link and Pala CopelandSacred Sex – A Path of Union, Celebration & Wholeness By Al Link and Pala Copeland - 4 Freedoms Relationship Tantra For many Canadians the term “sacred sex” is somewhat of an oxymoron, a contradiction in terms. Suggesting that you can find your way to God through sexual ...
Views: 3517(2 votes) - ***Sexual Energy Grounding Exercise - by Submitted on Aug 05, 2009 from Al Link and Pala CopelandGrounding is a very effective process for calming and stabilizing. Grounding connects you with the earth, carrying overpowering negative energies down and away much like a lightning rod. There are many methods for grounding. Try this one daily, as often as you think of it. Even if you don’t ...
Views: 6788(2 votes) - ***Soul Freedom Exercise (13): Kundalini Caresses - by Submitted on Nov 25, 2008 from Al Link and Pala CopelandSOUL FREEDOM EXERCISES Exercises To Do Together by Al Link and Pala Copeland KUNDALINI CARESSES Your chakras (energy centers along the spine) exert a powerful influence on your physical, mental, and spiritual well-being. This simple ceremony sends loving energy into each center. With your ...
Views: 1522(2 votes) - ***Soul Freedom Exercise (15): Yab-Yum Yum - by Submitted on Dec 01, 2008 from Al Link and Pala CopelandSOUL FREEDOM EXERCISES Exercises To Do Together by Al Link and Pala Copeland YAB-YUM YUM The Tibetan Buddhist term yab-yum translates as father/mother, masculine/feminine or yang/yin. Yab-yum is the ultimate Tantric lovemaking position because it is ideal for sharing energy. Time for ...
Views: 3904(2 votes) - ***Soul Freedom Exercise (17): Breaking Out of Jail - by Submitted on Dec 03, 2008 from Al Link and Pala CopelandSOUL FREEDOM EXERCISES Exercises To Do Together by Al Link and Pala Copeland BREAK OUT OF JAIL Feeling stuck? It’s time to break out of confinement and be free. Time for Exercise: 10 to 30 minutes Properties Required: large roll of package wrapping paper Steps: One of you ...
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