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- Listen To the Hand - by Submitted on Apr 01, 2011 from Lavinia PlonkaListen To the Hand Whether you were taught to fold your hands on your lap, hold your hands behind your back, or shove them in your pockets, you won’t be able to avoid the fact that your hands are communicating all the time. After many years of debate, researchers have finally agreed with ...
Views: 1993 - Is Your Husband Cheating on You? The Truth May Shock You - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2011 from Andrew HunterIt can be tough to question whether or not your husband is cheating on you. Your mind is racing, looking over his behaviors and actions trying to evaluate if it all adds up or if there is anything that seems out of place. Sometimes it can feel like putting a jigsaw puzzle together in the ...
Views: 1088(1 vote) - The 3 Telltale Habits of a Cheating Husband - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2011 from Andrew HunterIf you’ve been wracking your brain wondering if your husband is cheating, let me take you into the mind of a cheater. Here I’ll be sharing with you the 3 habits of a cheating husband. First of all, a cheating husband lives in a constant state of anxiety that he will be discovered. This may ...
Views: 3343(2 votes) - Why Would Another Woman Sleep with Your Husband and Destroy Your Marriage? - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2011 from Andrew HunterYour husband had an affair. I’m sorry to hear that, I really am. I know how difficult it can be to deal with something like that. It can seem like your whole stomach just drops right down through the floor, you feel dizzy, and none of it seems like its really happening. What can be even ...
Views: 6977(2 votes) - Love the World - by Submitted on Mar 27, 2011 from Tony DosanjhThe Law of Attraction is a very important one. That is: What you send out into the world will come back to you. If you hate the world, it will hate you back. Love the World and you will reap great benefits. Many scholars and philosophers have maintained this theory and it can benefit you as ...
Views: 950 - The 2 Shocking Ways That Most Affairs Are Discovered - by Submitted on Mar 25, 2011 from Andrew HunterIf your husband is cheating on you, then he is probably taking preemptive actions to cover his tracks. He is making excuses for being out of the house, deleting internet history, or has some code name for his mistress on his cell phone. But despite all of these precautions, most affairs will ...
Views: 7033(1 vote) - Feng Shui for 2011 -- Success in the Year of the Golden Rabbit - by Submitted on Mar 26, 2011 from Kathryn WeberThe Year of the Rabbit is here and it promises some big changes and some terrific opportunities! Like all years, though, it also has its challenges. But if you are prepared and put your remedies and enhancements in place, you'll do just fine. If you really make an effort, this could be ...
Views: 1456 - Is Your Husband Lying to You After His Affair? - by Submitted on Mar 25, 2011 from Andrew HunterIf you’re struggling with the issue of honesty in your marriage after your husband had an affair, it is only natural. After all, you trusted him all those times he told you he was working late at the office or going out for a drink with the guys. Who knows what else he could be lying about? ...
Views: 4250(1 vote) - How to Find Undeniable Proof That Your Husband Is Having an Office Affair - by Submitted on Mar 25, 2011 from Andrew HunterAnother late night at the office? Sometimes eating dinner by yourself one too many times can leave you wondering if your husband is really working late or if he’s doing something he shouldn’t be. How can you tell if he’s having an office affair, why do they happen, and what can you do about ...
Views: 3106 - How To Deal With Others - by Submitted on Mar 23, 2011 from Melodie WilliamsIn all applications of the fascination with people, you are encouraged to remember that your first goal, always and reliability, is a feeling of happiness in their minds. You do not have to try to encourage people to behave in a manner which you have created your own feel good about themselves. ...
Views: 1229(1 vote) - Husbands who Cheat by Beth Shepherd Psychic - by Submitted on Mar 02, 2020 from Pearls of WisdomHusbands who cheat by Beth Shepherd psychic. If only I had a dollar for each time a married man told me it was not his fault that he ended up cheating and went on to explain to me it was because he had got married when he was young and married a woman that he neither enjoyed spending time with ...
Views: 1177(2 votes) - A Simple 3-Step System to Forgive a Cheater and Enjoy a Happy Relationship - by Submitted on Mar 22, 2011 from Andrew HunterSo, your girlfriend cheated on you? I’m truly sorry to here that. It’s a real challenge to have to deal with something like that. Sure you could dump her, and there’s nothing wrong with that, but this could also be an opportunity to try to deepen your love and learn to forgive and accept ...
Views: 1135 - Take Responsibility in Your Love Relationship or Marriage... What Will and Won't Help You Move Closer Together Again - by Submitted on Mar 15, 2011 from Susie and Otto CollinsEllen feels sick to her stomach. She and her husband, Jim, had a really difficult weekend. Out of town guests were staying with them and, on top of this, it came to light that Ellen has been lying to Jim about how precarious her job. She is still not sure exactly why she lied, but she has ...
Views: 4733 - How to Rebuild Trust in Your Marriage After an Affair - by Submitted on Mar 14, 2011 from Andrew HunterI know that it can be difficult healing your marriage after an affair. One of the biggest problems that has to be addressed is the problem of trust. If your husband cheated on you, it is common to feel that you can’t trust him or uncertain if he will cheat again. But here I’d like to share a ...
Views: 1679(1 vote) - Question and Answer on Emotional Affairs - by Submitted on Mar 17, 2011 from Andrew HunterQ: What exactly is an emotional affair? A: An emotional affair is difficult to define since it happens mostly in the minds of people without being defined by specific actions like normal cheating. But essentially an emotional affair is any kind of inappropriate relationship between two ...
Views: 1373 - Did You Cause Your Husband’s Affair? The Truth May Shock You - by Submitted on Mar 17, 2011 from Andrew HunterI know that it can really sting to find out that your husband had an affair. It can have an enormous impact on your life and really shake you to the core. In an instant you can feel like the floor just fell out from under your feet and you’re plunging into a world of agony. I’ve been there ...
Views: 2106 - To Trust Or Not To Trust: That Is The Question - by Submitted on Mar 12, 2011 from Rita LouiseTrust is something that has become harder and harder to find. We don't trust our government, we question our doctors, we worry about the the air we breathe, the water we drink and the foods we eat. We lock our doors at night because we don't trust our neighbors, the people who live down the ...
Views: 1468(1 vote) - Find Out The Answer - by Submitted on Mar 06, 2011 from Frances LucasThere are times when others come to us with something they are trying to do and sometimes we tell them we just don’t know or we don’t have time. However, we should stop and try to help them any way we can. It will benefit them and us if we take an extra step to try and help. We need to help them ...
Views: 1302(1 vote) - How to Trust After You Have Been Hurt - by Submitted on Mar 15, 2011 from Andrew HunterTrust issues in a relationship aren’t uncommon. After all, whether it was in your current relationship or in a past relationship, who hasn’t been hurt at some point? I’m sorry to say that part of being human is to be hurt at some point in your life. The point though isn’t to use your past ...
Views: 1755 - 10 Ways to Show Respect: Master the Art of Conversation - by Submitted on Mar 05, 2011 from Sonia Di MauloThink of someone that you are uncomfortable talking to. •Why is it so difficult to talk to this person? •Do you feel defensive? •Do they feel listened to? •Do you avoid this person? These are signs that the relationship is lacking trust and respect. One way to help you have successful, ...
Views: 3866(3 votes) - Trust - The Road To Love - by Submitted on Mar 05, 2011 from Anatoliy KoychevPeople speculate a lot with the word trust and they do it on purpose. I would like to make a few clarifications about it... Many times trust is mixed with faith. But to have faith is one thing and to trust someone is something completely different. Faith is pointing outwards, it is created ...
Views: 1266(2 votes) - The Relationship Advice Approach to Deal with Infidelity - by Submitted on Mar 05, 2011 from Dr. Joseph AbrahamInfidelity is one of the most heart-wrenching problems a marriage can face because it shakes the base of trust on which relationships are built. However, it is not inevitable that all couples divorce after such an event. It is natural that couples have a hard time to re-connect and re-build ...
Views: 2059 - ***Truth - by Submitted on Mar 01, 2011 from Janet NestorI have been wrestling with a very deep trust issue, one that has been with me since conscious memory. This morning in meditation I asked for understanding and I was guided through the meditation by a member of my spiritual family of guides and teachers. I think Mataji has been with me all my ...
Views: 2744(8 votes) - When We Choose To Hide - by Submitted on Feb 27, 2011 from Frances LucasWe are creating problems in our relationships, with ourselves and with God when we choose to hide something. We are hurting relationships because we are not building trust and honesty. We are hurting ourselves because we are more than likely going to live in a world of guilt and distraction ...
Views: 1327(1 vote) - DR WENDEL - Travels With a Therapy Dog - by Submitted on Mar 04, 2011 from Karen Murdock"You don't want him," the young salesgirl told me, as she tried to direct me to away from the little spaniel to a cage filled with rambunctious, yapping puppies. "Look at these Yorkies, now there's a dog for you!" Our beloved Schnauzer had died months before, and to ease our mourning, my husband ...
Views: 1010 - On Deepening Intimacy - by Submitted on Feb 25, 2011 from Melanie McGheeI recently had a conversation about vulnerability that has stayed with me. On one hand, it’s clear that a willingness to be vulnerable, to share what’s true for you, deepens intimacy. On the other hand, being vulnerable in the wrong circumstances or at the wrong time can leave you feeling ...
Views: 1033 - Successful Decision Making 101 - by Submitted on Feb 23, 2011 from Marty WardDecisions, decisions, decisions…. Some of us are clear-cut, confident deciders while others hem and haw and find it tough to commit. Not deciding is deciding, yet many think that if they can be nice and vague, then they can’t be wrong. They can wiggle out and casually say, “Oh, no I didn’t ...
Views: 1276 - How to Rebuild Trust to Your Partner - by Submitted on Feb 23, 2011 from Nelson BerryBy The Pioneer of Subliminal Messages Online. The worst thing you can expect in a relationship is for your partner to destroy your trust. A lie, no matter how small, is still a lie, and it can have a profound effect on your relationship. Worse, you may discover that your partner is actually ...
Views: 1012 - ABANDONMENT Pain, Now (Part 2) - by Submitted on Feb 23, 2011 from Donna TorbicoABANDONMENT PAIN IS FROM THE PAST It hurts, but it passes DEFINITION • the DEF for Abandonment (A) is : “Not getting enough of your legitimate childhood needs met, & some needs NOT at all”. This applies to all 4 categories of NEEDS: Mental, Physical, Emotional, Spiritual. (A) is NOT just ...
Views: 1719 - ABANDONMENT Pain, Now (Part 1) - by Submitted on Feb 23, 2011 from Donna Torbico“I HATE YOU - DON’T LEAVE ME!” I know I don’t deserve you, but I’m desperate ✶ Un-healed ACoAs have only 2 speeds about most things: Too Much or Too Little, black or white, very high or very low. ‘Gray’ is NOT even thought of, or is seen as a cop-out! ✶ Mental Health is about many ...
Views: 1694 - “FEAR IS THE ABSENCE OF LOVE” - by Submitted on Feb 23, 2011 from Donna TorbicoLOVE vs FEAR? Fear is an emotion caused by either outer danger or inner false beliefs • Like so many popular ‘spiritual’ saying there’s some truth in it but NOT the whole story, so people can get easily confused & also misuse it. • Generally, this statement means that if we have enough ...
Views: 4351(1 vote) - ACoAs’ Need for REVENGE - by Submitted on Feb 23, 2011 from Donna TorbicoMAKE THEM SUFFER ! The same way they made me suffer! This post, of course, is about those of us raised in a variety of abusive, dysfunctional families & communities AS CHILDREN a. External CAUSES - Growing up, our parents & other adults: • blamed us unfairly, for all kinds of things ...
Views: 1585 - An Easy Path to Intimacy - by Submitted on Mar 15, 2011 from Stuart BlochOften people think intimacy is learning about their partners and teaching their partners what they want their partners to know about them. In actuality, the word "intimacy" says it all – IN TO ME SEE. Seeing intimacy as this simple phrase can be the key to unlocking the door to true openness ...
Views: 2453(2 votes) - How to Diffuse Arguements with Your Teens... in a split second! - by Submitted on Feb 23, 2011 from Carl LogreccoA Simple Tip For Dealing with Children/Teens Who Like to Argue with Their Parents. Have you noticed that children and teens today tend to be more argumentative than when we were kids? Things have changed; the world has changed. Children and Teens want more freedom and often parents perceive ...
Views: 3217(1 vote) - Personal RESPONSIBILITY - by Submitted on Feb 21, 2011 from Donna TorbicoOWNING MY T.E.A You may push my buttons, but I’m responsible for my Thoughts, Emotion & Actions WHAT IS IT? In it’s simplest form: honestly admitting, to ourselves, first of all, what we feel, think & have done - or - not. (Review T.E.A. - Thoughts, Emotions, Actions, pg 54 ) “I cannot ...
Views: 1771 - SELF-HATE & ACoAs (Part 2) - by Submitted on Feb 21, 2011 from Donna TorbicoNOBODY LOVES ME - I’m going to eat worms & die! Part 1: Essence, Source - Past & Present PURPOSE for S-H - TO: • protect our ideal of having good, loving, safe parents • protect us from feeling our old abandonment pain • keep from risking change (fear we’ll die if we S & I) • keep us ...
Views: 2143 - What is SHAME? - by Submitted on Feb 21, 2011 from Donna TorbicoTHE BAD SEED I was born bad & I’ll always be bad Guilt is about actions - it’s the emotion which is caused by disobedience to rules we deeply believe in. On the other hand, SHAME is about our identity - about who we are, fundamentally. It says that our very essence is bad, unlovable, ...
Views: 2351(1 vote) - Connect And Make Friends - by Submitted on Feb 16, 2011 from Adam BenedettoWe all know what it is like to be alone in a room surrounded by others, to see faces and yet not know how to connect or belong. There are so many people in this world satisfied with only knowing a few people because it is easy and stretching further is hard. To have a base of friends is ...
Views: 1037 - Valentine's Day - by Submitted on Feb 15, 2011 from Cory KempMy colleague, Natalie, recently shared another story with me. It is a classic tale of love found, lost and reclaimed, right before her very eyes. A member of her family, a Golden Lab whose name now escapes me, was well known for his affectionate ways and a deep love of cats. On visiting ...
Views: 1172 - The Eyes Have It - by Submitted on Feb 15, 2011 from WEE DILTSLearn the Power of Eye Contact What is eye contact? Several popular definitions are: 1. Eye contact is one of the most important nonverbal channels you have for communicating and connecting with others. 2. Defined as a meeting of the eyes between two people expresses meaningful nonverbal ...
Views: 1931(1 vote) - Faith is an Amzing Thing - by Submitted on Feb 13, 2011 from Dirrick WilliamsWhen we speak of faith, we tend to speak of it as something absolute. I have heard many people say they have to build their faith, and often I have heard people say they have no faith is this or that, in him or her. In this way faith is either there or it is not, or so it seems. On the other ...
Views: 1291 - Managing Jealousy - by Submitted on Feb 11, 2011 from Guy RussellUnderstanding jealous feelings and addressing them at the moment they occur, is the only way to handle jealousy without letting it slowly kill a relationship. It is one of those emotions that will destroy a loving relationship by both keeping it hidden and expressing it openly. While it may be ...
Views: 1511 - Short cut to success - long way to go - by Submitted on Feb 11, 2011 from Siddhaartha VaidLife is too short to do many things. One cannot be everything. Still we have some desires which we want to get fulfilled. We want to taste success in career and be rich. At least want to get some of them to materialize. I often ask myself, is there a formula for success? Technically; no. We ...
Views: 2003(3 votes) - When Our Heart Compels Us To Make Difficult Choices - by Submitted on May 29, 2011 from Randi FineIt isn’t always easy to do something that we feel in our heart is the right thing to do. Often we find that a difficult decision we felt compelled to act upon is unpopular and met with judgment, hostility, and reprimanding by those who are not even personally affected by our actions. Those ...
Views: 1644(1 vote) - 3 Tips to Overcome Divorce Drama and Pain - by Submitted on Aug 25, 2013 from Valery SatterwhiteYou're angry. Royally pissed off some, or most, of the time. You were not supposed to be divorced. Especially not at this age - after everything you've been through. You're knocked on your ass, want to get up and move on but can't. Why? Because you've fallen into the deep divorce drama ...
Views: 2132 - Emotional Infidelity - by Submitted on Feb 08, 2011 from Tee EdwardsEmotional Infidelity is a term that is becoming increasingly common, because of the increasing instances of it. What is emotional infidelity? In short, it's a form of infidelity that excludes sexual relations. It's important that this term is clarified, because many people feel that if they ...
Views: 1263 - The Chiropractic Face of God - by Submitted on Feb 07, 2011 from Vera SnowI first went to see Dr. P because I had a pain in my leg, now I go to him because he helps me pay attention to what my body says and needs. Let me explain. My initial chiropractic evaluation was a bit unsettling with all that cracking, especially around the neck. For some people, the neck ...
Views: 1133 - Stop Affair Relationships - Is It Strong Enough To Last? - by Submitted on Feb 05, 2011 from Johnny WayneAffair relationships, can they last for good? If the relationship both of you have is formed because of leaving the other spouse behind, do not be rush to decide in leaving the original relationship in just a split of a moment; you need to take time to think of all the consequences of your ...
Views: 4909(1 vote) - Why Affairs Are Good For Your Marriage - by Submitted on Feb 03, 2011 from Daniel TangNot getting enough attention, spouse cheated, unable to talk about it, feeling uncertain about the future and losing trust. Among these symptoms, many people who are going through this tough situation are wishing for it all to go back to the way it once was. But now you must stop and consider ...
Views: 2656(1 vote) - Guide To Dealing With A Cheating Husband! Forgiveness And Improvements! - by Submitted on Feb 03, 2011 from Daniel TangWant a quick tip on how to survive an affair? Then this article will hopefully be of some help to you. When an affair has caused your marriage to fall apart you need to examine who now has the power to decide whether this marriage will work or not. And in most cases the power resides in your ...
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