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- Dear Dr. Romance: He says he can't give me what I want - by Submitted on Feb 16, 2016 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I hope that you will be able to help me with a problem that i find i now have. I meet a man on line and he and i are great together everything was going great then a ex girlfriend had him put in jail saying that he was stalking her when he was really just going to his brothers ...
Views: 3565(2 votes) - 13 New Year’s Resolutions To Help Wives With Cheating Husbands - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2008 from Ruth HoustonIf your spouse or significant other is cheating on you, you’re not alone. An estimated 38 to 53 million women are victims of infidelity. Sadly, most wives with cheating husbands simply suffer in silence or tolerate their husband’s infidelity because they feel they have no choice, or because ...
Views: 3563 - ***Should I Stay Married or Get Divorced? - by Submitted on Sep 20, 2011 from Joe Beam“She’s pregnant by her lover. But she says she has come to her senses, loves me, and wants to save our marriage. My family practically hates her and wants me to divorce her and have nothing else to do with her ever. I don’t know what to do.” Call him Jim. Call her May. Every year situations ...
Views: 3560(1 vote) - All Affairs Are Not Created Equal - The 4 Types of Affairs - by Submitted on Apr 06, 2011 from Andrew HunterFirst of all, if you are reading this, I am guessing that you are dealing with adultery or infidelity in your marriage. If that’s the case, I want you to know how truly sorry I am. I know only too well just how much turmoil an affair can have on a relationship. Although the sting of ...
Views: 3559 - ***Tiger Woods in the Age of Infidelity - by Submitted on Jan 19, 2010 from Dr. Charles and Dr Elizabeth SchmitzBy America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts. As you know, infidelity stories were at an all-time high in the media this year—from former Senator John Edwards and South Carolina Governor Terry Sanford to Late Night host David Letterman and Golfer Tiger Woods. It’s enough to make many people ...
Views: 3550(36 votes) - Letting go of a relationship - by Submitted on Aug 03, 2011 from Elsabe SmitWhy is it that we hold on to relationships long past their natural end? Think of a friendship that no longer exists. Do you still remember how your friend insulted or deserted you? You gained new friends, but you still feel that hurt. Remember that supervisor who made your life such ...
Views: 3540(3 votes) - When to Stop Going Back After Multiple Betrayals From The Same Partner - by Submitted on Oct 07, 2018 from C Mellie SmithFor those who have been cheated on, finding out about the betrayal completely shatters your world and destroys everything that is familiar with it. Beyond the fact that it causes you to question everything and lose trust, it becomes a struggle for many on the moral ethics of whether you ...
Views: 3534 - Spiritual Truth About Betrayal - by Submitted on Apr 24, 2017 from Scott & Stephen PetulloThe concept of betrayal from a spiritual viewpoint is controversial. Since the dawn of time, many forms of betrayal, particularly romantic betrayal, have caused much emotional anguish. Everyone knows from experience that betrayal isn’t pleasant. Nobody likes to be on the receiving end of ...
Views: 3533 - The Dreaded Other Woman - by Submitted on Mar 01, 2009 from Chidi Asika-EnahoroThe other woman is the dreaded mystery intruder that wreaks havoc every where she goes. She invariably destroys every relationship she gets involved in. She employs her feminine wiles to succeed in luring an otherwise happily married man. The other woman has plagued society for centuries and ...
Views: 3521 - Breaking Up With Someone You Love - It is just a phase - by Submitted on Feb 13, 2013 from David BrittoFor most of the lovers out here, even the concept of breaking up with someone you love, may be hard enough to make you feel devastated. It is a human instinct to avoid thinking and imagining things that they rarely wish to see taking place. Nevertheless the reality of life is that we often have ...
Views: 3488(1 vote) - 13 Reasons Why You Should Look For Signs of Infidelity If You Suspect An Extramarital Affair - by Submitted on Jan 11, 2008 from Ruth HoustonWhen it comes to infidelity and extramarital affairs, ignorance is not bliss. If you suspect your spouse of cheating on you, it's to your advantage to search for signs of infidelity to either confirm or disprove what you suspect. Here are 13 compelling reasons why: 1. To put your mind at ...
Views: 3482 - Healing From The Trauma Of An Extramarital Affair - by Submitted on Jan 28, 2011 from Greg BakerYour spouse cheated on you. Nothing you can do will change that. Still, you’ve decided to stick it out and try to make the marriage work. Only you don’t trust him/her anymore, you are incredibly suspicious, and your anxiety of possibly being betrayed again is eating your heart out. You still ...
Views: 3449(1 vote) - Discover 6 Simple Steps to End an Emotional Affair - by Submitted on Nov 08, 2012 from Jacob ElichmannAre you struggling with emotional affair recovery? Does your wayward spouse need to know how to end emotional affair? If your trust has been shattered by emotional infidelity, you're probably wondering how your spouse can ever earn it back… This article is specifically about the actions ...
Views: 3421(1 vote) - Recovering From An Affair - by Submitted on Jan 30, 2009 from Janice TownsendRecovering from an affair is a long-haul. To prepare with that in mind will at least help with your tolerance of yourself. Certainly, because the feelings and thoughts that unfold as you are recovering from an affair will be so uncomfortable that you will want them to change very quickly. ...
Views: 3391 - Signs Of A Cheating Wife - 10 Sure Shot Ways to Discover Whether She's Playing Around - by Submitted on Jul 29, 2008 from Doug and Chris YoungSigns of a cheating wife are subtly different to those of a cheating husband. Statistics tell us that 50% of men who think their partner is cheating are right. If you suspect your wife might be cheating on you behind your back here are 10 signs that you need to look out for: 1. She pays more ...
Views: 3345 - Does Power Lead a Faithful Man Astray? Cheating Prevention Tips - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Susie and Otto CollinsWe read about it all of the time. Wealthy men in positions of power who cheat on their wives. Some of them have multiple affairs. Even if you aren't married to a man who is rich and powerful, you might be concerned that someday the corrupting influence of power-- or an aspiration for ...
Views: 3344 - The 3 Telltale Habits of a Cheating Husband - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2011 from Andrew HunterIf you’ve been wracking your brain wondering if your husband is cheating, let me take you into the mind of a cheater. Here I’ll be sharing with you the 3 habits of a cheating husband. First of all, a cheating husband lives in a constant state of anxiety that he will be discovered. This may ...
Views: 3343(2 votes) - Communication Tips to Help You Talk Commitment Even When You're Not Ready for Marriage - by Submitted on Jul 08, 2010 from Susie and Otto CollinsLindsay and Brian have been dating for about a month now. They've been spending every weekend together. Both of them are beginning to wonder if this is turning into something more. This is an exciting time for Lindsay and Brian. They are having fun together and their growing intimacy is ...
Views: 3324(5 votes) - How to Decide When to End a Long Term Relationship - by Submitted on May 07, 2013 from Joshua UebergangBeing in a long term relationship can have so many wonderful aspects. People fall in love and remain together all the time. However, being in a long term relationship can also become stale and boring. There are times when stale and boring can be fixed, and there are times when other issues mean ...
Views: 3324 - Countering Abandonment and Separation Anxiety - by Submitted on Oct 15, 2012 from Sam VakninClinging and smothering behaviours are the unsavoury consequences of a deep-set existential, almost mortal fear of abandonment and separation. For the codependent to maintain a long-term, healthy relationship, she must first confront her anxieties head on. This can be done via psychotherapy: the ...
Views: 3322(1 vote) - Confront Jealousy in Your Love Relationship or Marriage - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Susie and Otto CollinsWhen Jeff sees his girlfriend, Tami, flirting with another guy, he gets jealous-- really jealous. It can take every ounce of restraint that Jeff has to not storm over and confront the other man, and Tami too. But Jeff has promised himself-- and Tami-- that he won't let his jealousy take over ...
Views: 3305(1 vote) - Emotional Affairs, What’s All the Fuss About? - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2011 from Tammy DavidsonThere are two quite different beliefs as to what is an emotional affair; the one believes it to be a workplace friendship, the other believes it to be the single most dangerous threat to a marriage possible. These two viewpoints do not fall neatly into gender camps, but there is a commonality ...
Views: 3292(1 vote) - Help for the Sex Addict's Spouse - Part 5 - by Submitted on May 10, 2009 from Peggy FergusonCan the spouse of a sex addict find help individually for the effects of the sexual addiction on their lives? Sure. Much of the time, however, it is the crisis of discovery of the acting out, or some other related crisis that brings the sex addict and spouse into treatment. They usually seek ...
Views: 3289 - Why Do Men Cheat On Their Partners? - Why Do Women Cheat On Their Partners? - by Submitted on Oct 05, 2010 from JOANN HICKSAre you a woman who suspects that your man is cheating on you? One of the most common questions asked by women who have been cheated on is “why do men cheat?” When it comes to determining why men cheat on their wives or their girlfriends, it is difficult to come up with an exact reason. Why? ...
Views: 3276(1 vote) - You Are Not The Problem: Why it’s Not Your Fault You Were Cheated on - by Submitted on Sep 25, 2018 from C Mellie SmithWhen you discover that the person you trust the most has betrayed you, whether that be with an emotional affair or a physical one, it can have devastating effects. From getting stuck in an endless cycle of bitterness, depression, and loneliness to being convinced that you somehow were the ...
Views: 3241 - ***The John Edwards Affair - by Submitted on Jun 22, 2009 from Colin TippingIf I had known earlier what I have just learned from reading excerpts, in Newsweek, taken from Elizabeth Edwards' recently released book, I would have gone out and put money on the absolute inevitability of her husband's infidelity. I am quite certain that John Edwards had no choice in the ...If ...
Views: 3231 - ***The Process of Overcoming Adultery and Infidelity - by Submitted on Jul 10, 2013 from Gregory SmithComing to terms with adultery or infidelity, understanding how it happened, and taking the necessary steps to recover is not easy – especially when your emotional pain is fresh, and your wounds are so deep. It hurts … and it’s sickening to think that the person ...
Views: 3230(1 vote) - HOW TO GET OVER YOUR PAST (AND PAST YOUR HURT) By Mort Fertel - by Submitted on Sep 09, 2009 from Mort FertelHas your spouse neglected you? Rejected you? Emotionally abused you? Are you struggling to get over the pain of an affair? If you're having marriage problems, the chances are good that you need to put some hurt behind you. It's one of the most common questions I get. "Mort, I want to ...
Views: 3226(3 votes) - Loving relationships and infidelity in military families - by Submitted on Sep 06, 2009 from Dr. Erica GoodstoneAre you currently in a close relationship, spending evenings and weekends together, sharing unique activities and intimate moments that are special to the two of you? · Do you get upset when your partner spends an extra evening out or goes away for a weekend or a week without you? · If ...
Views: 3221(3 votes) - Does Infidelity Deserve a Second Chance in Marriages? - by Submitted on Jun 13, 2011 from Rakesh SethiThis is a difficult question and you must answer after carefully weighing all facts. A marriage is a commitment between two people. However, if know for a fact that your spouse cheated, should you stay together? An affair does not necessarily foretell the end of a relationship. But how to ...
Views: 3220 - 7 Signs Of A Husband Having An Affair - by Submitted on Feb 16, 2011 from Brenda StewartHow do you know if your husband is having an extramarital affair? The first clue comes from your instinct and because you know him very well and you feel that something is not right. But to be sure that your husband is really having an affair is better so look for some of the most obvious signs ...
Views: 3192(1 vote) - Can a Cheater Truly Change? - by Submitted on Jun 26, 2010 from Dr. Gilda CarleDo you believe the adage of “once a cheater, always a cheater”? I believe the answer lies in understanding the motivation and character of the cheater in question. People only take one second to determine whether they find someone sexually attractive. Then in only three minutes, they decide ...
Views: 3191 - After an Affair: How Do You Rebound? - by Submitted on Apr 02, 2012 from Joe JamesHow do you rebound after an affair? If one holds onto grudges, it is hard to look at your spouse the same way. Recovering from an affair can be devastating. If a husband or wife has neglected their spouse and the spouse then wants to look elsewhere for love, cheating is not the answer. It is ...
Views: 3156 - Trust Rebuilding Tips When You're Back with Your Ex Who Cheated - by Submitted on Nov 18, 2010 from Susie and Otto CollinsIt's been a turbulent couple of years for Selena and Robbie. After living together for over 5 years, Selena was shocked and outraged to learn that Robbie was having an affair with another woman who also lives in their apartment building. She was so upset about this, she packed up her ...
Views: 3141(1 vote) - How to Find Undeniable Proof That Your Husband Is Having an Office Affair - by Submitted on Mar 25, 2011 from Andrew HunterAnother late night at the office? Sometimes eating dinner by yourself one too many times can leave you wondering if your husband is really working late or if he’s doing something he shouldn’t be. How can you tell if he’s having an office affair, why do they happen, and what can you do about ...
Views: 3107 - 3 Steps in Recovering From An Emotional Affair – Overcoming The Post Affair Images - by Submitted on Apr 02, 2011 from Brenda StewartThe biggest problem people are facing when recovering from an emotional affair is stopping the hunting images of their partner’s lover. These images are playing just like a horror movie in your head every single day and even when you sleep you have nightmares about the affair. Recovering ...
Views: 3096 - The New Definition of an Affair - by Submitted on Nov 15, 2009 from Martez LaytonI know that most people would say that an affair is the worst sin that a spouse could commit. I remember growing up as a child this is what I heard from my mother. The reason that she decided to leave my father was because he had cheated. So, all of my childhood and teenage years I looked at ...
Views: 3082(1 vote) - Marriage After An Affair When He Cheats (For Women, Why Men Cheat) - by Submitted on Dec 07, 2009 from Shane BoydMarriage after an affair is not impossible, but it can feel like it at times. What do you do if your husband cheats on you? Should you divorce him or try to work it out? That answer to that really relies on you and how deep your love for him is. But to digress a minute, if you’re going to ...
Views: 3064(3 votes) - Life Coach Relationship Advice to Infidelity Victim: Fix Your Self Esteem Before Your Relationship - by Submitted on May 28, 2009 from Dr. Joseph AbrahamCan a Marriage Counselor help a couple get through and overcome such an upsetting event as Infidelity? In most cases yes, but there are two ‘but’: first, the underlying causes and the unhealthy aspects of the relationship need to be addressed. Second, in the course of working through the ...
Views: 3032 - Loyalty and Infidelity - by Submitted on Dec 07, 2009 from Gregory MorganNothing strikes fear in the heart more than the thought that your mate is cheating on you with someone else. Yet every year more and more marriages and engagements are destroyed by infidelity. What leads normally rational people to commit the one irreversible act that is sure to kill off the ...
Views: 3024(1 vote) - Recovering From An Emotional Affair - How To Cope With The Initial Trauma - by Submitted on Mar 01, 2011 from Brenda StewartWhen you find out that your spouse was unfaithful to you, the feeling of betrayal can be almost unbearable. Just in a single moment your whole life that you believed in is taken away from you and you are starting to think about recovering from an emotional affair because despite the fact your ...
Views: 2971(2 votes) - A Stealth Cell Phone Tracker To Catch Unfaithful Wives - by Submitted on May 08, 2011 from Bula OdonellHave you been suspecting your spouse or husband of disloyal on you? On this situation, a cell phone tracking process is the top thing you can use to test your hypothesis. You will need to know that it really is a piece of cake to use a monitoring utility to find out but if your husband or wife ...
Views: 2967 - Surviving Infidelity: Dealing with Feelings of Shame and Failure - by Submitted on Sep 11, 2011 from Joe JamesFor many people who are surviving infidelity, one of the most common thought that flashes in their head is that somehow, one way or another, there must be something wrong with them, they must not be good enough in some way because if they were the infidelity never would have happened. These ...
Views: 2936 - Catching Mr. Duplicity - by Submitted on May 24, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraDo you feel that your husband or boyfriend is cheating on you? Well, if your intuition is strongly nagging you that you are being duped, then you need to get to the bottom of it. Don’t allow a cheater to get away with his philandering. You deserve to be treated fairly and with respect! No one ...
Views: 2933(1 vote) - “He Cannot Stop Looking At Other Women!” - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraEarth- composed of 70% water and 30% land. It is also made up of various elements like 32% iron, 30% oxygen, 15% silicon, 14% magnesium, 3% sulfur, 2% nickel, and then much smaller piles of calcium, aluminum, and other trace elements. It is also inhabited by “Homo sapiens”… beautiful Homo ...
Views: 2903 - What Percentage of Men Cheat? - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2011 from Tammy DavidsonMost people would agree that the sexes regard sexual liaisons differently, however, an emotional affair is non sexual, so is it mostly men or women who conduct emotional affairs? Absolute figures on this are hard to come by, especially as people who answer surveys on infidelity are notoriously ...
Views: 2892 - Sandra Bullock & Jesse James Astrology Analysis - by Submitted on Jun 04, 2010 from Gurmeet SinghSandra Bullock (born July 26th, 1964 at 3:15 AM in Arlington, VA) is an American film actress. She came to fame in the 1990s, after roles in successful films like Speed, While You Were Sleeping and one of her most recent film roles in 2005’s Crash. According to Vedic Astrology or indian ...
Views: 2890 - Marriage, Adultery & Soul Mates—It’s Natural to be Attracted to Someone Other Than Your Spouse - by Submitted on Sep 12, 2007 from Scott & Stephen PetulloA client of ours told us that she is comfortable with not committing adultery. She says that the bible indicates that lusting after another is still considered adultery; the intent and interest is still there, so she’d feel guilty about doing even that. She feels that since she married her ...
Views: 2870 - Save a Marriage - Reasons For Divorce and How to Stop it Dead in Its Tracks! - by Submitted on Jun 24, 2010 from Ryan DiedrichNot knowing where to turn when you marriage is on the brink of failure is a horrible feeling. The sleepless nights, the stress at home, and the pure anxiety are all very common and you are not alone. There is a 50% that you and your spouse will end up in divorce, especially if you live in the ...
Views: 2857 - Solve Unhappy Relationship Issues and Commitment Problems—Actions Speak Louder Than Words - by Submitted on Jun 13, 2010 from Cindy L. HerbAre you having trouble finding commitment in a relationship? I have heard of many people who are very unhappy with a current association or situation in their life. It is not what they want. These people continually go around asking others for their opinion as to how to get the conditions ...
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