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- Getting Past Cheating In Your Marriage - by Submitted on Jan 28, 2011 from Yvonne FinnWhether you are cheating, your spouse is cheating or both of you are being unfaithful to each other, your marriage has suffered a life-threatening blow and will need help getting past the cheating. Many marriages do survive past the affair, but it takes hard work and total commitment by both ...
Views: 2019 - Cheating Spouse - The Suspicious Ringing - by Submitted on Oct 08, 2007 from Tim DenioThe indispensable tool for a cheating spouse is a cell phone to stay in touch with their secret lover. The important thing for you when you are suspicious is to zero in on the obvious as well as subtle clues while not allowing your spouse to know you are on to him/her. The way an unfaithful ...
Views: 2009 - Six Steps to Rebuilding a Broken Trust - by Submitted on Jun 24, 2015 from Janet PfeifferHave you ever disappointed someone or broken a promise? Was the incident serious enough to ultimately compromise the trust between you? We all have been untrustworthy at some point. That doesn't mean that we're bad or selfish. Sometimes, even under the best of circumstances, we let people down. ...
Views: 2009 - Will a Vacation With a Cheating Spouse Help Repair My Marriage? - by Submitted on Mar 27, 2018 from C Mellie SmithGoing through a cheating phase is always a trying and traumatic time in any relationship, most especially in a marriage because the options aren't that simple anymore; there might be long-term investments made together, a baby, families intertwined and so on. Which means for married couples, ...
Views: 2001 - Are You Suffering from Someone Else's Sexual Addiction? - Part 4 - by Submitted on Jul 23, 2009 from Peggy FergusonAre you angry, depressed, confused, and constantly trying to figure out what your spouse is up to? If you are spinning your wheels, trying to strategize and find solutions for your spouse and your relationship before you have actually identified the problem, keep reading. Family members can ...
Views: 1998 - Top 5 Infidelity Signs To Know If Your Boyfriend - Husband Is Cheating - by Submitted on Feb 05, 2011 from Brenda StewartIf you are convinced that your husband is cheating on you, the first thing you should do is to think about what made him act like that. Maybe it was because your behavior, daily problems, the fact that you are together for some years now and monotony began to emerge or maybe working in excess or ...
Views: 1998(2 votes) - Paternity? Sibling? Grandparent? Avuncular? What Type Of DNA Test Is Right For You? - by Submitted on Oct 31, 2012 from Maura LMany people have questions about their family tree and if they share a biological relationship with someone. Today, it is easier to find out than ever! More and more DNA testing is available at affordable prices so you can get the answers you're looking for. The question is.... who do you do the ...
Views: 1994 - 4 Surprising Benefits of Online Marriage Counseling - by Submitted on Jan 26, 2012 from Lisa Penn-JamesOnline marriage counseling is becoming increasingly more popular over the last few years - And for very good reasons. Online couples counseling services offer the same qualified and experienced professionals (via phone, chat or email), but with added benefits that traditional counseling just ...
Views: 1990 - Emotional betrayal and your feelings - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2011 from Tammy DavidsonRage, it is perfectly normal to feel angry, at your betrayer for having an extramarital affair, at yourself, at his friends who kept the secret, at your friends who did not warn you, at the world for letting this happen! It is not, however, alright to take that rage out on your children, nor ...
Views: 1987(1 vote) - Relationships: Why Do Some People Fear That Their Partner Will Cheat? - by Submitted on Dec 22, 2013 from Oliver JR CooperThere are numerous challenges that can arise in a relationship and while some of these are fairly insignificant and can be overlooked, others are far more significant and can’t be ignored. And while there is going to be external challenges, there is also going to be internal challenges. So ...
Views: 1987 - Surviving Infidelity in Your Relationship. - by Submitted on Apr 18, 2014 from Emma ViglucciWhat is an affair? What constitutes cheating? Infidelity? These are very personal definitions. Most people have their own version of what constitutes what. Here is a definition I have adapted from experts in the field that works well: An affair involves one of the partner’s passion being ...
Views: 1985(1 vote) - Warning! Marital affairs can seriously damage your emotional health! - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2011 from Tammy DavidsonThe profound and powerful emotions, experienced upon discovering a marital affair, can cause significant emotional damage to the person experiencing them, if they are not handled properly. How can you handle the strong emotions triggered by a husband’s infidelity? Closing down and effectively ...
Views: 1983 - Historical Transformational of Sexual Relations - by Submitted on Mar 01, 2011 from hanna brulskaHistorically, sex outside of marriage in any shape or form has been unacceptable and even punishable by society for centuries. Sexual intercourse happening before marriage, giving birth to children born outside of marriage, or having extramarital relationships could result in serious legal ...
Views: 1982(2 votes) - Is Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Worth It? - by Submitted on Dec 08, 2009 from Shane BoydIf you’ve been cheated on then you know the feeling that fills your stomach after you found out about the affair. You also know all too well the anger and emotional discord this selfish act has caused you and the sleepless nights it has left behind. After the initial anger and heartbreak pass ...
Views: 1978(3 votes) - Banish negative emotions, a strategy to clear your mind - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2011 from Tammy DavidsonThe first weeks after discovering their husband’s extramarital affair the wife will experience a mindless jumble of emotions. For some those weeks pass in a blur and they cannot remember much about what they did, let alone what they said. This is critically important, and no decisions should be ...
Views: 1967(1 vote) - Surviving Infidelity and Moving Forward - by Submitted on Jun 13, 2012 from Joe JamesSurviving infidelity is now possible. Infidelity is by far, according to statistics, the leading cause of divorce throughout the world. For those people in marriages, you will agree that it is very difficult, almost impossible to survive betrayal. It is for this very reason that most marriages ...
Views: 1957(1 vote) - Forgiveness Begins With You - by Submitted on Feb 19, 2011 from Trudy-Ann EwanBeing betrayed by a loved one can leave you feeling angry, unwilling to trust again and angry. You may also suffer a blow to your self-esteem and most devastating of all, heart-break. The pain of heart-break is so intense that you feel as if you are losing your mind. Having a deep love for ...
Views: 1956(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: Should I Give Up on His Love? - by Submitted on Jul 17, 2012 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: We'd been really close and intimate. I thought we were going to be in a special relationship soon because he told me we were having something special. No matter how tired he was, he'd had his dinner with me. He got paranoid every time I threatened to stop ...
Views: 1949(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: Is He Cheating on Me? - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2012 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: Is he cheating on me? Or am I just being paranoid? Me and my boyfriend have been together for 15 months now. A couple of weeks ago we broke up and then got back together after a week. When we broke up he kept texting me, asking “Are you happy?” and ...
Views: 1943 - Cheat-Proof Your Marriage - by Submitted on Sep 01, 2009 from Noelle NelsonYour one-and-only isn’t behaving his one-and-only self lately. He’s distracted, spends more time at work, on the Internet, everywhere but with you. He’s not that interested in being intimate – oh, he joins in just fine if you make the moves, but he’s not initiating things. You hear “yes, dear” ...
Views: 1942(3 votes) - Internet Business – Find Internet Business, Earn Money Through Internet - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2010 from Jigney BhachechInternet Business Ever since its inception, internet has been one of the greatest revolutions in the human history. It has invaded into almost all the aspects of human life. With the help of internet, internet business is becoming more and more popular nowadays. Online based business requires ...
Views: 1939 - Of Mistresses And Lovers- Behind The Curtain Of Extramarital Affairs - by Submitted on May 06, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraHow long have you been married- 5, 10, 20 years? You’re certain you know everything about your other half. Maybe you do but then again, maybe you don’t. Today, we will explore the forbidden world of clandestine extramarital affairs. Men are more prone to cheating, this is not surprising. Some ...
Views: 1930 - Three Mistakes Ladies Make When Dealing With A Two Timing Spouse - by Submitted on May 01, 2013 from Daryl CampbellFinding out your man carried on an affair is generally a distressing reality for any woman. You don't want to believe it is true. When you realize that it really is it feels as though you are in a very bad dream. All of the expectations for a wonderful marital relationship are no longer. ...
Views: 1930(1 vote) - 3 Things Successful Couples Do to Keep Their Marriage Strong - by Submitted on Mar 17, 2011 from Mika MaddelaDo you constantly ask yourself "how in the world am I going to save my marriage?" Are there times when you feel like saving your marriage is a long shot? Is it getting to the point where you can hardly think straight, sleep at night or worse, can't perform your job well? If any of these ...
Views: 1927(2 votes) - 5 Reactions Of An Emotional Affair - Is Your Spouse Having An Emotional Affair? - by Submitted on Dec 15, 2010 from Marci ThomasWith new technologies comes new challenges and opportunity for a spouse to be unfaithful. But the ease of technology doesn't make it right. When a partner discovers that their spouse is involved in a relationship with someone who they have close ties with and that relationship crosses the ...
Views: 1924 - Help Dealing with Infidelity: What to do When the Thoughts Still Haunt You - by Submitted on Oct 28, 2014 from C Mellie SmithYou wake up in a sweat after watching the scene in your dreams of him with her. Him kissing her, him running his hands through her hair like he does you, him whispering sweet nothings in her ear – the visions never stop. That’s what you imagine about the cheating. It’s the same for men and ...
Views: 1923 - Top 7 Tips For Surviving An Affair - by Submitted on Feb 02, 2011 from Brenda StewartEven solid relationships can face this situation at one time, of having to deal with surviving an affair after one of the partner cheated. Curiosity, desire, temptation, many people find it difficult to deny that "something else ". When other people come into their lives, a simple affair can ...
Views: 1913(1 vote) - How to Avoid Being A Robot Salesperson - by Submitted on May 24, 2012 from Belinda SummersEven though salespeople tend to memorize scripts or read off of them, don't let your customers know that you are reading from a script. Instead, change the tone and the way you speak when you talk to your prospects for a higher chance of getting a sale. There are those salespeople who focus ...
Views: 1911 - Marriage Advice For Men - Why You Should Not Be Unfaithful and What to Do If You Have Cheated - by Submitted on Feb 14, 2010 from Roland TrujilloWho was it who said: "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned?" If only men understood just how devastating it is for a wife when a husband fails to be the noble man she had dreamed and hoped for. With the Tiger Woods scandal making headlines recently, what does a tough-minded marriage coach ...
Views: 1911 - Infidelity:Possible Root Causes - by Submitted on May 02, 2012 from Joe JamesInfidelity often comes as a result simple problems that are often unattended to. Poor communication skills or repeated ignorance makes a spouse mad and easily tempted to cheat. This may eventually lead to a severe breakup or separation. The couple should equally work together to nurture their ...
Views: 1909 - Sexting is Now Out in the Open, Now What? Part Seven - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2011 from Daniela RoherIn this seventh and last blog on sexting, we discuss what happens after one partner has acknowledged sexting with a third person outside of the primary relationship. How can the two partners rebuild their relationship, or is this impossible to do? First of all, it is important to say that ...
Views: 1909 - Are You Cheating Me? - by Submitted on Aug 15, 2007 from Bill MitchellEver wonder when your spouse leaves for work if that is real destination? Have you felt distance and uneasy for no reason? Are you experiencing guilt not trusting your mate? Chances are you also feel a great sense of denial as well. I am right? Client after client asks me for advice. I'm a ...
Views: 1907 - Are you Guilty of Infidelity? - by Submitted on Sep 15, 2015 from Patrick BanksWhen you first meet someone and experience the dizzy heights of love, the last thing that you might be thinking of is that at some point you are going to be guilty of infidelity but that’s what happens to many people in often surprisingly good relationships. If you think about it, infidelity ...
Views: 1895 - How Not Forgiving Your Partner or Ex, Harms You! - by Submitted on Jul 15, 2015 from Nicola BeerAre you struggling to forgive your ex or current partner for something they did? Are you still carrying a grudge, feel resentment or anger towards them? In all romantic relationships (past and present) there will be times where the one you love will hurt you. It could be something small, ...
Views: 1894 - Signs Of Cheating - by Submitted on Aug 17, 2010 from Stefan KovacSigns Of Cheating. Are the one you love cheating on you? What are some signs of cheating that correlate with a cheater? I've listed a few of the main and minor signs of cheating that cheaters usually display whether they realize it or not. No matter how hard a cheater could try to cover ...
Views: 1894(4 votes) - Signs Your Ex Wants You back - How To Read The Signs - by Submitted on Aug 31, 2009 from Catherine KOZARHere are some of the major signs your ex wants you back. They try to reach you with no particular reason. They are always in places where you seem to be. You have heard on the grapevine that they have no interest in new relationships. Their appearance seems to have improved. They seem to ...
Views: 1893(2 votes) - Why you should avoid destructive emotions! - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2011 from Tammy DavidsonAffairs in marriage bring out the absolute worst in people, and make for good newspaper copy! Finding out that you are married to a cheating husband, is likely to trigger anger. Nobody would deny the right of a betrayed spouse to feel anger, but it is important that one be careful as to where ...
Views: 1889 - DETACHING FROM THE PAST - by Submitted on Dec 11, 2011 from Jennifer Elizabeth MastersOur physical bodies are made up of energy. The earth is also comprised of energy. Thoughts are also comprised of energy. So much of what is around us from our thoughts and past relationships is energetic garbage that just needs to be removed from our energy field. In a 30 minute session the ties ...
Views: 1888(1 vote) - Technology Aided Infidelity - by Submitted on Jun 30, 2010 from Miho AdkinsAt 5:00 pm he called his wife to tell her he will have supper with co workers and then go to a client meeting. Her innocent response is "Have a great night, see you later". At 5:15 he left his office and is headed to a small city some thirty miles from his office. He checked his text messages ...
Views: 1873 - Signs Of A Cheating Spouse - Be Alert! Learn Now For The 7 Signs Of A Cheating Spouse - by Submitted on Jan 17, 2011 from Johnny WayneMost often, signs of a cheating spouse are not easy to see and recognize.It can become 50-50 because spouse is good when hiding extra marital activities.When you observe one sign of a cheating spouse, it is not enough to confront immediately your spouse and ask him/her about cheating.The truth ...
Views: 1861(2 votes) - Is Your Mate Being Unfaithful? - by Submitted on Jul 08, 2011 from Brooke AlexandriaNot much hurts more than the sting of betrayal by a partner. If you suspect that your partner is cheating, know to look for the following signs that may indicate that your suspicion is correct. 1. A change in routine. If your partner suddenly no longer has time for your ritual Friday evening ...
Views: 1860(1 vote) - How to Get Through a Breakup Without Bitterness - by Submitted on Dec 04, 2011 from Laura SmithSince your breakup, are you calling everyone you know and recounting the story over and over and over about how he did that or he said this or can you believe what he’s up to now? Let me ask you another question then: What about YOU? You see, I fell into that trap too. HE was awful. HE ...
Views: 1858 - Envy, Jealousy, and Shame - by Submitted on Sep 24, 2015 from Darlene LancerEnvy, jealousy, and shame are inextricably intertwined. Envy and jealousy are primal emotions that frequently overlap. They’re commonly first felt in the form of sibling rivalry and oedipal longings. A child innately wants mommy and daddy all to him or herself and feels “excluded” from the ...
Views: 1849(2 votes) - Beating the Odds: How to Survive Infidelity and Have a Happy, Healthy Marriage - by Submitted on Apr 22, 2016 from C Mellie SmithIt may seem impossible when you first find out that your spouse is cheating, or realize you’ve cheated and potentially destroyed your marriage, to realize that you can come out of infidelity with a happier and healthier marriage. It really doesn’t mean the end if you are both committed. Here are ...
Views: 1847 - Top 5 Infidelity Signs That Your Boyfriend/Husband Is Showing - by Submitted on Feb 05, 2011 from Brenda StewartDo you think your partner is having an affair? Then do not panic and do not try to find out the truth from him. But instead try to analyze in detail his gestures and actions and look for infidelity signs. If you get angry and make a scene this will not solve anything, but if you manage to ...
Views: 1842 - 7 Steps to Keep Your Hobbies and Marriage Intact - Save Your Marriage - by Submitted on Sep 14, 2016 from Nicola BeerIan and Kim were a couple who came for marriage counseling, as they were constantly fighting over Kim's love of fashion and the financial cost of her shopping sprees, her husband Ian couldn't keep up with it and thought that there were far more important things to be spending money on. Kim felt ...
Views: 1833 - Helping Your Spouse Heal From Your Affair - by Submitted on Apr 05, 2016 from Nicola BeerMost unfaithful partners underestimate the damage and fallout after infidelity. Many claim that they didn’t think of the consequences and often, when faced with losing what they have, panic. This panic can lead them to make further mistakes in their attempts to help their injured partner. If ...
Views: 1833(1 vote) - Married and Cheating - How to Get Revenge and Blow Up Your Marriage - by Submitted on Nov 24, 2009 from Daryl CampbellNobody had to tell you. Your intuition has never let you down although in this instance you wish it had. There were just too many things that didn't add up. Your spouse started taking better care of themselves. That is something that you had been urging them to do for years. So why now? Then ...
Views: 1832(1 vote) - 6 Things I Wish I Knew Then That I Know Now After My Divorce (by: Dr. Anne Brown PhD, RN) | DivorceForce - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2016 from Dr. Anne BrownWe always hear people say, "I wish I knew then what I know now," so here is some help if you are navigating a divorce now ... 1.Believe in Yourself! Three words that are so powerful they can change any "I can't into "I can". When you hear the words "I want a divorce", there will be times ...
Views: 1829(1 vote) - How to Rekindle a Marriage After an Emotional Affair - by Submitted on Feb 22, 2016 from C Mellie SmithYou turned your back on the truth and chose denial when you started to notice the little things - the coldness, the redirected warmth, the quick temper where it used to be so chill. You thought that your spouse just needed a little bit of time off, so you gave it, and then you found them out. ...
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