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- Prevent Fighting, Prevent Cheating – Here’s How - by Submitted on Mar 26, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraWhen a relationship becomes a regular emotional and mental battle ground, it is most likely that either you or your partner will take refuge outside of your relationship. That is why it’s no surprise that one of the major causes of infidelity is the frequent fighting and arguing in the ...
Views: 1142(2 votes) - Doable Ways To Affair Proof Your Relationship - by Submitted on Mar 26, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraAccording to studies, sixty percent of men and forty percent of women will have an affair at some point in their relationship. This statistic shows that people who stay loyal and faithful to their partner is a part of a growing minority. Before I met my wonderful partner, Andy, I had my fair ...
Views: 879(1 vote) - Dear Married Men: Keep Your Balls To Yourself - by Submitted on Mar 26, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraExtramarital affairs, it seems as if everybody’s doing it- Presidents, Senators, Governors, golfers, bosses, friends, cousins, family members… you thought, why not try the fun and excitement yourself. If they can do it, why can’t you, right? Well, if those people can give you a piece of advice, ...
Views: 827(1 vote) - Bouncing Back From Infidelity - by Submitted on Mar 26, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraSometimes life can be pretty funny- it throws you a curveball, hands you a lemon, or knocks you for a loop, but being aware how to approach failure can be the first step to success. In life and in relationships, it is impossible to live without failing at something, unless you lived so guardedly ...
Views: 971(2 votes) - For The Love Of Money: The Truth About Financial Infidelity - by Submitted on Mar 25, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraFinancial infidelity, you may not know about it, but you may guilty of it. Financial infidelity is every bit as damaging to the relationship as the physical one. As one husband says, “It’s one thing to fool around. It’s another thing to fool around with my hard-earned cash.” When money ...
Views: 867(2 votes) - Thoughts About Confronting The Other Woman - by Submitted on Mar 25, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraSometimes it feels so good to be bad and say, “I know I might regret it, but what the hell!” Sometimes crossing the line can make you feel justified… especially if you have been wronged by the person really close to you. And nothing can push you to be a bad ass than being a victim of ...
Views: 5326(2 votes) - Life For Rent: Confessions Of A Mistress - by Submitted on Mar 25, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraThe mistress, you can’t hate her enough. If you can skin and burn her alive, you know you would. You can’t help but be overwhelmed with anger. But stop, pause and ask yourself- is all that hatred and anger worth it? “When a wife gets into all kinds of trouble to get even, she is only ...
Views: 1033(1 vote) - How To Get Him Back Even If He’s Involved With Someone Else - by Submitted on Mar 25, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraYour greatest fear now realized- you can feel your airways tightening, your stomach aching and your head spinning. The love of your life, the only man that you can only see yourself with, has a new girlfriend. All hopes of happy ending now flushed down the drain. And when things seemed down ...
Views: 15397(2 votes) - OMG--He's a Sex Addict! - by Submitted on Mar 01, 2010 from Noelle NelsonYou storm into the living room, where your honey sits hunched over his laptop, TV blasting, after-work-beer close at hand. “What’s this?!” you exclaim, waving a magazine at him. “Huh?” Honey replies. You grab the remote, power the TV off with a jerk. You tap your foot. You glare. He sees the ...
Views: 2013(2 votes) - How Engagement Counseling Can Affair-Proof Your Marriage - by Submitted on Feb 27, 2010 from Sheryl PaulMy clients call me with a variety of anxiety-based questions (many of which I’ve discussed in previous articles): Does my anxiety mean that I don’t love my fiancé enough? How do I know that I’m making the right decision? Is there someone out there who’s better for me? Does the fact that I’m not ...
Views: 2495(1 vote) - One Myth about Affairs that Only Makes Your Broken Heart Pain Worse - by Submitted on Feb 26, 2010 from Susie and Otto CollinsIf your partner had an affair, you might be trying to figure out how this happened. Whether you are still in this relationship or not, your heart might feel broken into a million pieces. Unfortunately, some of the beliefs that you may hold about infidelity could be making your broken heart ...
Views: 17533(8 votes) - Did You Cause Your Spouse to Be Unfaithful? - by Submitted on Feb 25, 2010 from Daryl CampbellThe reason a spouse cheats on their significant other of course comes down to the individual and how they perceive the marriage relationship. But we are all familiar with a few of the reasons. 1. Out of Love Neither spouse can explain it but the romance that they once shared is gone. Both ...
Views: 994(1 vote) - Cheating Spouses - They Don't Care - by Submitted on Feb 25, 2010 from Daryl CampbellWith more than a few cheating spouses the reason given for their philandering is that the marriage had stopped working or the two them had fallen out of love. Others believe monogamy is unrealistic and society should not be allowed to dictate our actions. Then there is one that in many ways ...
Views: 1101(2 votes) - Women Who Step Out on Their Man - The Four Main Causes - by Submitted on Feb 19, 2010 from Andrew HunterMen have little control over whether or not their women step out on them - it's their perception of the state of the relationship, and not the reality, that motivates them. Your qualities as a companion - as a lover - are immaterial. If a women decides that her relationship is less than ...
Views: 1544(2 votes) - Spouse Infidelity - How to Find Out If It's True - by Submitted on Feb 16, 2010 from Daryl CampbellIt has been like a game of cat and mouse but you are not exactly sure who is who. There has been some talk among some people you know that your spouse is having an affair. When you confront one of them their language suddenly becomes very mysterious. They have not seen your spouse doing anything ...
Views: 877 - Cheating Spouse Signs - Show You the Money - by Submitted on Feb 15, 2010 from Daryl CampbellWe seem to be reaching a point in our society where people are more open about their personal business. You may have experienced this yourself on occasion. Someone is in public talking on their cell phone in a voice for all to hear about the intimate details of their life. It is kind of ...
Views: 716(2 votes) - Cheating Spouse Signs - Going it Alone - by Submitted on Feb 15, 2010 from Daryl CampbellWe know that marriage is not going to be like it was when we are dating. Everything seems heightened during the courting phase of the relationship. We are so in tune with each other and the level of fascination about the other person never stops growing. We want to know what they are doing, ...
Views: 708(2 votes) - Cheating Spouse Signs - Keeping it Quiet - by Submitted on Feb 15, 2010 from Daryl CampbellIt was roughly three years ago when a former Senator announced that he would make another run for the Presidency of the United States. It was also around that time that he made a confession to his wife that turned her world upside down. The former Senator admitted to having an affair but ...
Views: 846(2 votes) - Marriage Advice For Men - Why You Should Not Be Unfaithful and What to Do If You Have Cheated - by Submitted on Feb 14, 2010 from Roland TrujilloWho was it who said: "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned?" If only men understood just how devastating it is for a wife when a husband fails to be the noble man she had dreamed and hoped for. With the Tiger Woods scandal making headlines recently, what does a tough-minded marriage coach ...
Views: 1754 - Cheating Spouse Signs - The Nagging Never Stops - by Submitted on Feb 12, 2010 from Daryl CampbellIn 1946 a radio show broke new ground in its handling of the marriage relationship. It was called appropriately enough The Bickersons. Francis Langford and Don Ameche starred as a couple whose banter was rough even by today's standards. The program inspired more than a few shows that went on to ...
Views: 1148 - Signs He Is Cheating - by Submitted on Feb 11, 2010 from Andrew HunterNobody would like to be cheated on. It is always an exceptionally crippling and embarrassing thing to endure. Sadly, there are certain individuals these days that will cheat on you. Listed below are a number of distinctive clues your man is cheating on you and what you might do to fix your ...
Views: 1426(1 vote) - 3 Ways to Determine If He Is Cheating - by Submitted on Feb 09, 2010 from Andrew HunterWhile human beings live on the planet earth, you will see cheaters in our midst. It may not be right, nonetheless it is a sad truth. Say you guess that you may not be the sole woman involved in your man's world, listed here are a number of clues he is sneaking around behind your ...
Views: 944(3 votes) - What is Adult Dating? - by Submitted on Feb 05, 2010 from Tamara WilkinsAdult dating involves consenting adults meeting either personally or else interconnecting on the internet for a common purpose (usually sexual). There are various purposes or else styles that adult dating entails. Some examples are those who seek interracial dating, others swinging, dogging, ...
Views: 1508(4 votes) - Trust in Relationships - by Submitted on Apr 21, 2010 from Michael FehlauerThe fundamental importance of trust in relationships, and the destruction that happens when that trust is violated became a reality to me several years ago. It’s still a vivid memory; ugly and detailed accusations, followed by denials from me. I lied, got caught and our world crashed. At ...
Views: 1183(1 vote) - Broken Heart and Infidelity Advice: “I didn't realize that I was the 'other woman'” - by Submitted on Feb 03, 2010 from Susie and Otto CollinsA breakup can be excruciating to go through. The end of your relationship can evoke feelings of loss, grief, sadness and anger. In these moments of pain, it might seem that you will never be as happy again. You may wonder if you'll ever have another love like this. Patti feels this ...
Views: 1630(1 vote) - Cheating Spouse Signs - Losing Interest - by Submitted on Feb 03, 2010 from Daryl CampbellThere's a song from back in the day that says, "When you are trying to love two. It sure ain't easy to do." That maybe true but it does not stop countless cheating spouses from giving it the old college try. In the beginning they may be quite successful at it. They tell themselves that it is ...
Views: 1377(1 vote) - Cheating Spouse Signs - Way Too Nice - by Submitted on Feb 03, 2010 from Daryl CampbellHave you ever met a couple that was just so nice and kind to each other that it made you physically ill. You swore to yourself and anyone who would listen that it was nothing more than an act. That behind closed doors they probably couldn't stand the thought of each other and argued like Al and ...
Views: 1521(2 votes) - Cheating Spouse Signs - The Night Out - by Submitted on Feb 01, 2010 from Daryl CampbellBoys night out or girls night out is one of the rituals of married life. It's billed as a necessity to give yourself and your spouse breathing room. And if done right in all honesty it can be a great benefit. Being married does not mean you should give up your social circle to always be in your ...
Views: 905(1 vote) - Spousal Infidelity - 3 Powerful Motivators - by Submitted on Jan 20, 2010 from Daryl CampbellA certain Nevada Senator got himself in all kinds of trouble this year when he admitted to carrying on an extramarital affair. During the summer John Ensign made his confession to the media which was already in hot pursuit of the story. Apparently Ensign was so infatuated with the woman that he ...
Views: 887(1 vote) - Marriage, Monogamy, and Infidelity: 7 Varieties of Secretly Non-monogamous Marriage Partners - by Submitted on Jan 12, 2010 from Scott & Stephen PetulloA happy, monogamous, life-long, traditional marriage is almost universally desired, yet has been proven time and time again through high divorce and infidelity rates and legions of unhappy couples to be, in most cases, an idealistic, unrealistic notion trumped by the reality of human ...
Views: 3425(6 votes) - Pornography: Why You Must Not Look – 8 Tips for Overcoming This Evil - by Submitted on Jan 11, 2010 from Matthew TooneEach of us is exposed to and bombarded by – on a daily basis – an evil that is extremely enticing and appealing, so selfishly gratifying (temporarily), so unavoidably addictive, and so incredibly damaging to our thoughts, lives, families, and society. It is a plague and modern day slavery that ...
Views: 16972(4 votes) - Is Your Spouse Cheating? - by Submitted on Jan 11, 2010 from Angie LewisIs your spouse cheating? Sadly and amazingly enough this sort of behavior is going on in Christian marriages too! What can people do when they realize that their spouse has been unfaithful? First of all understand that this problem is not about “how you feel”. Your feelings are ok to have but ...
Views: 1445(1 vote) - Is It Possible To Salvage Your Marriage After Infidelity Has Occurred? - by Submitted on Jan 03, 2010 from George FellowsThe emotional wreckage that comes after the discovery of an affair, makes it tough for couples to work towards rebuilding their marriage after infidelity has occurred.However your marriage after an affair can also become a relationship that is stronger and more loving than it was before. Read on ...
Views: 2469(3 votes) - Typical Signs Of Cheating In A Relationship - by Submitted on Jan 01, 2010 from Jessica AndrewsThere are numerous Signs that can signal a partner is Cheating in a Relationship. Should your partner work late without any explanation, has more meetings and other functions than normal, or is heading out with friends more often than ever before, there's a good reason to be concerned. Also ...
Views: 983(2 votes) - Spouse Infidelity - 3 Signs to Know If Your Spouse is Cheating - by Submitted on Dec 17, 2009 from Daryl CampbellOne of the reasons that an extramarital seems to flourish and go undetected is the belief by many partners that it could never happen to them. While some of it sounds like pride another component is that people trust the one they are with implicitly. They have never considered such a thing so ...
Views: 768(4 votes) - ***Tiger Woods in the Age of Infidelity - by Submitted on Jan 19, 2010 from Dr. Charles and Dr Elizabeth SchmitzBy America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts. As you know, infidelity stories were at an all-time high in the media this year—from former Senator John Edwards and South Carolina Governor Terry Sanford to Late Night host David Letterman and Golfer Tiger Woods. It’s enough to make many people ...
Views: 3251(36 votes) - Is Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Worth It? - by Submitted on Dec 08, 2009 from Shane BoydIf you’ve been cheated on then you know the feeling that fills your stomach after you found out about the affair. You also know all too well the anger and emotional discord this selfish act has caused you and the sleepless nights it has left behind. After the initial anger and heartbreak pass ...
Views: 1780(3 votes) - Marriage After An Affair When He Cheats (For Women, Why Men Cheat) - by Submitted on Dec 07, 2009 from Shane BoydMarriage after an affair is not impossible, but it can feel like it at times. What do you do if your husband cheats on you? Should you divorce him or try to work it out? That answer to that really relies on you and how deep your love for him is. But to digress a minute, if you’re going to ...
Views: 2856(3 votes) - How To Prevent Emotional Cheating From Destroying Your Marriage - by Submitted on Dec 07, 2009 from Shane BoydEmotional cheating in a marriage is not much different than physical cheating. The same emotions are being used and your husband is still emotionally detached from you, at least for a while. But to better understand what’s going on with your husband you’ll have to figure out why he is ...
Views: 1521(4 votes) - Is it an affair? - by Submitted on Dec 05, 2009 from Dana VinceThere is the obvious definition of an affair, having sex with someone other than your spouse. But are there different types of affairs? And now that we have the Internet, how does that add to the problem. One of the ways to define an affair is to ask the question, is what you are doing ...
Views: 1558(3 votes) - THE TIGER WOODS AFFAIR: WHY NICE GUYS CHEAT - by Submitted on Dec 05, 2009 from Lisa DailyBy now you've probably heard the sordid details of Tiger Woods alleged affairs with cocktail waitress Jamiee Grubbs, New York city nightclub hostess Rachel Uchitel, and Las Vegas party planner Kalika Moquin. The scandal comes as a bit of a surprise to his many fans, especially considering his ...
Views: 2541(2 votes) - 3 Tips to Prevent an Affair in Your Relationship - by Submitted on Dec 03, 2009 from Susie and Otto CollinsJanet can't believe how far apart she and her husband Mark have grown. To Janet, her husband seems nothing like the man that she married almost 20 years ago. That man wouldn't have had an affair. To be fair, she has changed as well. When Janet looks at the way she sometimes acts when ...
Views: 1418(2 votes) - If You Want to Catch Your Spouse Cheating Don't Do This - by Submitted on Dec 02, 2009 from Daryl CampbellThere are enough loose threads and half baked explanations just hanging out there which would make anyone suspicious. It's gone on long enough so now it is time to clear the air. But when you do confront your spouse on whether they are having an extramarital affair, they give you the whole ...
Views: 797(2 votes) - Married and Cheating - How to Get Revenge and Blow Up Your Marriage - by Submitted on Nov 24, 2009 from Daryl CampbellNobody had to tell you. Your intuition has never let you down although in this instance you wish it had. There were just too many things that didn't add up. Your spouse started taking better care of themselves. That is something that you had been urging them to do for years. So why now? Then ...
Views: 1721(1 vote) - Loyalty and Infidelity - by Submitted on Dec 07, 2009 from Gregory MorganNothing strikes fear in the heart more than the thought that your mate is cheating on you with someone else. Yet every year more and more marriages and engagements are destroyed by infidelity. What leads normally rational people to commit the one irreversible act that is sure to kill off the ...
Views: 2816(1 vote) - Is Your Spouse Cheating? Here Are 3 Signs to Help You Find Out - by Submitted on Nov 21, 2009 from Daryl CampbellLife's short so have an affair. That's the tagline of a certain website that specializes in helping married people go the extra mile and have an extramarital affair. By all accounts business is very good for this company. You do not know if your spouse has decide to go that far and contact ...
Views: 887(1 vote) - Married and Cheating - When One Wrong Beats Another - by Submitted on Nov 19, 2009 from Daryl CampbellThe statistics on married and cheating spell it out pretty clearly. Forty one percent of people admit to having an extramarital affair. And nothing reinforces those numbers like the recent trends of certain websites whose sole purpose is to encourage people to cheat on their significant ...
Views: 768(1 vote) - Why are Partners Unfaithful - by Submitted on Nov 18, 2009 from Marty TashmanWhy are Partners Unfaithful Over the years I have been asked “Why did he/she do it” below are reasons that partners make the choice to go outside the marriage. This is a list of 13 of the most common reasons that people go outside of the marriage for an affair is not a justification, it is ...
Views: 1442(2 votes) - The New Definition of an Affair - by Submitted on Nov 15, 2009 from Martez LaytonI know that most people would say that an affair is the worst sin that a spouse could commit. I remember growing up as a child this is what I heard from my mother. The reason that she decided to leave my father was because he had cheated. So, all of my childhood and teenage years I looked at ...
Views: 2846(1 vote) - Dealing With Affairs in the Christian Community - by Submitted on Nov 15, 2009 from Martez LaytonI have been in the Christian community all of my life, but I cannot remember one time ever hearing someone teach on affairs in the church. I remember hearing about preachers cheating, the deacon cheating and the church secretaries cheating but never hearing or seeing this issue being dealt with ...
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