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Marriage Therapy: 8 Signs You Should See a Marriage Counselor - Dave Turo-Shields- How To Get Your Husband / Wife In The Mood When Tired: How To Get Him / Her In The Mood When Tired - by Submitted on Mar 03, 2019 from John BraxtonHow To Get Your Husband / Wife In The Mood When Tired: How To Get Him / Her In The Mood When Tired After a few years of marriage, you have noticed a significant change in your sex life and it is definitely not one for the best. As of late, you and your spouse just don't seem to have that deep ...
Views: 480 - Taking Stress Out On Spouse: My Husband Is Stressed Takes It Out On Me - by Submitted on Mar 03, 2019 from John BraxtonTaking Stress Out On Spouse: My Husband Is Stressed Takes It Out On Me When we're experiencing stress from work, we're often irritable, and when we walk in the door at home it's difficult to shed the bad mood leftover from the workplace. In fact, many marriage arguments can be blamed on this ...
Views: 1592 - Midlife Crisis Husband Leaves: Get Your Husband Back After Midlife Crisis - by Submitted on Mar 03, 2019 from John BraxtonMidlife Crisis Husband Leaves: Get Your Husband Back After Midlife Crisis This is most likely something that every woman who has ever been married will go through in their lives. It is inevitable that their husband will go through a mid-life crisis and end up leaving the wife worried about ...
Views: 926 - Is He Having Second Thoughts About Divorce: Second Guessing Divorce - by Submitted on Mar 03, 2019 from John BraxtonIs He Having Second Thoughts About Divorce: Second Guessing Divorce My husband wants to divorce me - that's never easy to come to terms with. It feels you like you can't face tomorrow. The feelings and the serious problems means that your life is heading in a different direction completely. ...
Views: 1329 - How To Make Physical Relationship With Husband: No Physical Relationship With Husband - by Submitted on Mar 03, 2019 from John BraxtonHow To Make Physical Relationship With Husband: No Physical Relationship With Husband If you're a woman who has a husband not interested in sex, is there anything you can do about it? The answer is a resounding "Yes!" There is no reason that any woman should have to suffer in a sexless ...
Views: 750 - My Husband Has No Desire For Me: How To Make My Husband Desire Me - by Submitted on Mar 03, 2019 from John BraxtonMy Husband Has No Desire For Me: How To Make My Husband Desire Me If your husband isn't interested in sex, getting the romance back in your life is probably your number one priority. But before you even get started fixing your sexless marriage, there are three things you need to know. 1. ...
Views: 632 - Husband and I Hate Each Other: Slowly Hating My Husband - by Submitted on Mar 03, 2019 from John BraxtonHusband and I Hate Each Other: Slowly Hating My Husband Ideally when you get married you will stay in love forever, in reality a lot of couples find that the love does not last in their marriage. This does not however mean that the marriage has to end. While few people dream of a loveless ...
Views: 1154 - My Husband Is Leaving To Find Himself: Rebuild When Your Husband Wants Space - by Submitted on Mar 03, 2019 from John BraxtonMy Husband Is Leaving To Find Himself: Rebuild When Your Husband Wants Space At that moment when your partner walks out of the front door, you probably feel that your marriage separation is it. That's it, all over! However, I'd like you to know that if you prepare well and have the right ...
Views: 2304 - How To Decide To Divorce Or Stay Married: How Do You Know When Its Time To Leave Your Marriage - by Submitted on Mar 03, 2019 from John BraxtonHow To Decide To Divorce Or Stay Married: How Do You Know When Its Time To Leave Your Marriage You probably will not find many married people who will say that marriage is easy. Any relationship takes effort to make it work well. However, there are times when you may wonder if you can save ...
Views: 534 - My Husband Blames Me For His Actions: My Husband Blames Me For His Behavior - by Submitted on Mar 03, 2019 from John BraxtonMy Husband Blames Me For His Actions: My Husband Blames Me For His Behavior Blaming others can become an ugly habit. It negatively effects all our relationships. Stop and think about these quetions for a moment: - How often do you look for someone to blame when something goes wrong in your ...
Views: 723 - My Husband Rejects Me In Bed: Rejection By Husband How To Deal With It - by Submitted on Mar 02, 2019 from John BraxtonMy Husband Rejects Me In Bed: Rejection By Husband How To Deal With It It's a worldwide problem. Women in every country have reported husbands who have little to no sex drive. If you find yourself in this situation where sex is infrequent or even nonexistent, you're not alone. Women in ...
Views: 558 - How To Stop Being Jealous In Marriage: How To Deal With Jealousy In Your Marriage - by Submitted on Mar 02, 2019 from John BraxtonHow To Stop Being Jealous In Marriage: How To Deal With Jealousy In Your Marriage Do you feel like your partner is not in love with you the way he was before? Are your constant jealous feelings really affecting your relationship? Countless couples have broken up their relationships due to the ...
Views: 525 - My Husband Doesn't Comfort Me When I'm Upset: My Husband Doesn't Comfort Me When I Cry - by Submitted on Mar 02, 2019 from John BraxtonMy Husband Doesn't Comfort Me When I'm Upset: My Husband Doesn't Comfort Me When I Cry You have been married for a while, and have the feeling that your husband isn't interested in you anymore. Your husband doesn't show affection towards you, and to you, he doesn't love you as much as he used ...
Views: 3390 - I Resent My Husband Because Of His Family: Things Toxic In Laws Do That Damage Your Marriage - by Submitted on Mar 02, 2019 from John BraxtonI Resent My Husband Because Of His Family: Things Toxic In Laws Do That Damage Your Marriage One factor that can and does affect the husband and wife relationship has to do with the nature of how forgiveness is expressed. Admittedly, both parties need to cultivate and display this important ...
Views: 2435 - My Husband Says I Am A Burden: My Husband Told Me He's No Longer In Love With Me - My Husband Called Me A Burden - by Submitted on Mar 02, 2019 from John BraxtonMy Husband Says I Am A Burden: My Husband Told Me He's No Longer In Love With Me - My Husband Called Me A Burden Some women, after getting estranged from their husbands, wonder "Will my husband ever love me again?" For some this becomes a pining leading to pain and sorrow. This question is ...
Views: 1919 - How To Make Husband Feel Special: How To Make Your Husband Feel Loved And Respected - by Submitted on Mar 02, 2019 from John BraxtonHow To Make Husband Feel Special: How To Make Your Husband Feel Loved And Respected It's normal for couples to feel ecstatic right after their wedding and even up to a few years after it. But this wedded bliss lasts only up to a certain point that's why the couple needs to work hard beyond ...
Views: 601 - I Think My Spouse Is Cheating On Me: I Have A Feeling My Husband Is Cheating On Me - by Submitted on Mar 02, 2019 from John BraxtonI Think My Spouse Is Cheating On Me: I Have A Feeling My Husband Is Cheating On Me You have a feeling that your partner is cheating on you recently but you are not very sure. What are the warning signs of cheating partner that you should watch out for? One of the most obvious signs ...
Views: 501 - My Husband Keeps Lying To Me: My Husband Lies To Me All The Time - by Submitted on Mar 02, 2019 from John BraxtonMy Husband Keeps Lying To Me: My Husband Lies To Me All The Time "Your silence is half consent," shouted a wife distraught by the constant lies of her husband. "But it can be half denial as well," commented her friend who was listening to her. The wife was silenced at the logic in the ...
Views: 1065 - My Husband Won't Grow Up: How To Make Your Husband Grow Up - by Submitted on Mar 02, 2019 from John BraxtonMy Husband Won't Grow Up: How To Make Your Husband Grow Up "I do everything by myself with NO HELP! I work all day, cook, clean, look after the kids, pay bills and make all of the decisions in the home. While he sits around watching football, playing video games or wanting to hang with his ...
Views: 1157 - I Don't Care About My Husband Anymore: What You Need To Consider Before Leaving Your Husband - by Submitted on Feb 28, 2019 from John BraxtonI Don't Care About My Husband Anymore: What You Need To Consider Before Leaving Your Husband We often hear the expression 'I'm not in love any more' but what exactly does that mean? Initially when we 'fall in love' it is a feeling of euphoria and we can't think about anything or anyone else. ...
Views: 647 - My Husband Has Become Distant: My Husband Is Cold Emotionally - How Can I Tell If He's No Longer Emotionally Connected To Me - by Submitted on Feb 28, 2019 from John BraxtonMy Husband Has Become Distant: My Husband Is Cold Emotionally - How Can I Tell If He's No Longer Emotionally Connected To Me When we marry we expect that our spouse will always be the person we'll feel a special connection with. We envision that they'll be our closest confidante as well as ...
Views: 1544 - My Husband Hates Me but Won't Leave: What You Can Do To Recapture His Heart - by Submitted on Feb 28, 2019 from John BraxtonMy Husband Hates Me but Won't Leave: What You Can Do To Recapture His Heart My husband said he hates me. Does he really, or was it just words said in a moment of anger? How many times do we say things we don't literally mean but which can be extremely hurtful nonetheless? What brings someone ...
Views: 1773 - My Husband Has Never Been In Love With Me: My Husband Doesn't Believe We Were Truly In Love With Each Other - by Submitted on Feb 28, 2019 from John BraxtonMy Husband Has Never Been In Love With Me: My Husband Doesn't Believe We Were Truly In Love With Each Other When it comes to love and being in a relationship including marriage, there are people who prefer to be with somebody who has more love to give to them. It appears that these people ...
Views: 1125 - Separated From Husband How To Get Him Back: How To Win Back Your Husbands Heart - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2021 from Maci AspenSeparated From Husband How To Get Him Back: How To Win Back Your Husbands Heart Did you break up with your husband and you are going crazy because you don't know how to get your husband back after a separation? Do you want to find out what can bring your hubby back to you? Because I've seen ...
Views: 1281 - Husband Makes Me Depressed: Feeling Inadequate As A Wife - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2021 from Maci AspenHusband Makes Me Depressed: Feeling Inadequate As A Wife 1. Don't look to others to make you happy - The first step in discovering how to be happy in marriage is recognizing the true source of happiness. In most relationships we are initially attracted to another person because they make us ...
Views: 1163 - My Husband Makes Me Feel Suicidal: I'm Not Happy In My Marriage What Should I Do - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2021 from Maci AspenMy Husband Makes Me Feel Suicidal: I'm Not Happy In My Marriage What Should I Do If you are not happy in marriage, don't worry because you are not alone. Almost half of all marriages end up in divorce. What started out to be great dreams of owning a home, having children and living in ...
Views: 963 - My Husband Said I Make Him Unhappy: Husband Is Miserable With Me - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2021 from Maci AspenMy Husband Said I Make Him Unhappy: Husband Is Miserable With Me So, you want to learn how to keep your husband happy. It is equally important that both of you know how to make each other happy and not only on one side. Let's look at some things that we can do in order to keep your husband ...
Views: 1776 - How To Make Husband Happy When Angry: What To Do When Husband Is Angry With You - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2021 from Maci AspenHow To Make Husband Happy When Angry: What To Do When Husband Is Angry With You Are you still at a loss as to how to make your husband happy? You notice him being a little indifferent and there seems to be a feeling of coldness that you can sense in him, but then you are afraid to ask not ...
Views: 2239 - Husband Talks To Me Like Dirt: He Treats Me Bad But I Can't Leave - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2021 from Maci AspenHusband Talks To Me Like Dirt: He Treats Me Bad But I Can't Leave There may be many reasons why a husband starts to treat his wife badly, and without knowing each situation personally, it's impossible for anyone to be able to give a definitive answer. However, there are certain situations ...
Views: 1375 - I Am So Unhappy With My Marriage: I Love Him but I'm not Happy Anymore - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2021 from Maci AspenI Am So Unhappy With My Marriage: I Love Him but I'm not Happy Anymore Have you ever wondered how to make your marriage happier? In fact, it's an easy deal only if you have done something proper to close your relationship. You are able to improve your relation, and you can have a happy ...
Views: 751 - My Husband Says That It's Over Between Us: He Doesn't Want Me Anymore - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2021 from Maci AspenMy Husband Says That It's Over Between Us: He Doesn't Want Me Anymore Just before a couple separates, one partner usually gets to a place where they are fed up. He/she is done talking. They don't want to work it out. For them, it is over. But the other partner wants to save the marriage. They ...
Views: 743 - Relationships: Is The Purpose Of A Relationship To Trigger Old Wounds? - by Submitted on Feb 28, 2019 from Oliver JR CooperWhen someone has just started to date another person, they can find that they feel really good. They are then still going to be on the same planet that they were on before they met this person, but it can be as if they have been taken somewhere else. This area of their life is going to be ...
Views: 839 - Are You With Your Soulmate? - by Submitted on Feb 27, 2019 from Michelle FisherAre you with your Soulmate? There are Four Types of Romantic Relationships, Soulmates, Twin Flames, False Twin Flames, Karmic. Some people consider False Twin Flame Relationships to be Karmic, but I happen to disagree and I will explain why. Karmic Relationships are the ones that don’t fall ...
Views: 695 - Husband Talks To Others But Not Me: Husband Talks To Everyone Except Me - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2021 from Maci AspenHusband Talks To Others But Not Me: Husband Talks To Everyone Except Me When we communicate it means we are explaining our inner thoughts and our view on a particular situation. When we are communicating, what we say may not actually align with what is in our mind. However, when the ...
Views: 2580 - My Husband Says His Feelings about Me Have Changed: My Husband Has Lost Feelings for Me - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2021 from Maci AspenMy Husband Says His Feelings about Me Have Changed: My Husband Has Lost Feelings for Me When your husband is falling out of love with you, making him love you again can seem very hard. "How do I avoid a divorce, then?" I hear you asking. And yes, it can be hard. However, it can be done if you ...
Views: 2207 - My Husband Says He Doesn't Love Me Like He Used To: Why Would A Man Stay Married If He Is No Longer In Love With His Wife - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2021 from Maci AspenMy Husband Says He Doesn't Love Me Like He Used To: Why Would A Man Stay Married If He Is No Longer In Love With His Wife Marriage problems can be very devastating, especially when your husband is emotionally disconnected and distant. It can also be the case that your husband ignores you and ...
Views: 704 - Signs That My Husband Is No Longer Interested In Me: Signs Your Husband Hates You - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2021 from Maci AspenSigns That My Husband Is No Longer Interested In Me: Signs Your Husband Hates You Nothing has happened to change your mind about your husband - you still treasure his company and love him like before. Yet you have a nagging doubt that your husband does not love you anymore, or at least his ...
Views: 1525 - My Husband Has Fallen Out Of Love With Me: My Husband Fell Out Of Love With Me Can I Get Him - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2021 from Maci AspenMy Husband Has Fallen Out Of Love With Me: My Husband Fell Out Of Love With Me Can I Get Him The peak of most marriages are their beginning. A great wedding ceremony, and a honeymoon like a dream - newlywed couples have got it the best. However, it doesn't continue like that, and reality ...
Views: 1001 - How To Get Your Marriage Back After A Separation: How To Rekindle A Marriage During Separation - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2021 from Maci AspenHow To Get Your Marriage Back After A Separation: How To Rekindle A Marriage During Separation If your marriage is on the rocks at the moment, don't worry because it can be mended simply by following some vital steps to marriage separation reconciliation. Every marriage is different, but ...
Views: 1490 - How To Work On A Marriage During Separation: How Can I Work At Saving My Marriage If My Husband Has Already Left - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2021 from Maci AspenHow To Work On A Marriage During Separation: How Can I Work At Saving My Marriage If My Husband Has Already Left Some people say that once your marriage faces the reality of a trial marriage separation, there is no turning back. This is completely false because for many others out there going ...
Views: 716 - I Haven't Spoken To My Husband In A Month: How To Influence Your Husband To Talk - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2021 from Maci AspenI Haven't Spoken To My Husband In A Month: How To Influence Your Husband To Talk "My husband doesn't communicate with me anymore." This is a problem a lot of wives have. It's not in men's nature to talk openly about their feelings and problems. But when this goes to the extreme and your ...
Views: 2333 - Husband Says He Needs Time To Work On Himself: When You're Separated But Want To Reconcile With Your Spouse - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2021 from Maci AspenHusband Says He Needs Time To Work On Himself: When You're Separated But Want To Reconcile With Your Spouse Like everyone says, communication is what keeps marriages afloat. But if one side tries to explain himself but is not clear enough, it might leave the other confused. And when people ...
Views: 1796 - My Husband Says He Has Lost Himself: My Husband Wants To Separate Because He Feels Like Being Married Is Holding Him Back - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2021 from Maci AspenMy Husband Says He Has Lost Himself: My Husband Wants To Separate Because He Feels Like Being Married Is Holding Him Back If you need marriage separation advice, it must mean that your marriage seems pretty bleak right now. Maybe the two of you are fighting all of the time. Or maybe your ...
Views: 1383 - Husband and Wife Not Talking To Each Other: When Your Partner Refuses To Communicate - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2021 from Maci AspenHusband and Wife Not Talking To Each Other: When Your Partner Refuses To Communicate Even though you may love each other a lot, there will be times when you're not happy with each other. Whether or not you can successfully manage marriage conflict resolution relies on how these differences ...
Views: 869 - I Cheated On My Husband How Do I Fix It: Can A Marriage Go Back To Normal After Cheating - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2021 from Maci AspenI Cheated On My Husband How Do I Fix It: Can A Marriage Go Back To Normal After Cheating "I cheated on my husband! How do I fix this now?" It's a sobering experience to hear yourself saying this. We're all so accustomed to hearing about men who are unfaithful to their wives. When you're a ...
Views: 2350 - My Husband Says He's Thinking About Leaving: Husband Has Told Me He's Thinking About Leaving Me - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2021 from Maci AspenMy Husband Says He's Thinking About Leaving: Husband Has Told Me He's Thinking About Leaving Me Learning how to stop divorce and save marriage can be done, and IS done all the time. It breaks my heart to know that so many couples would rather let their marriage go than to try to save it. It ...
Views: 889 - I Can't Stand The Man I Married: I Can't Stand My Marriage - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2021 from Maci AspenI Can't Stand The Man I Married: I Can't Stand My Marriage Save marriage tips can be used to great effect even if you feel heavily bogged down with present relationship problems. It's possible that when applied, they can help relieve some strain that's squeezing the juice out of your ...
Views: 764 - How To Ask For A Second Chance In Your Marriage: How To Get Your Spouse To Give Your Marriage A Second Chance - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2021 from Maci AspenHow To Ask For A Second Chance In Your Marriage: How To Get Your Spouse To Give Your Marriage A Second Chance Everyone has problems and things that can not be altered, no one's perfect. Now if your husband has abandoned you, there is a reason why he has done so, and you must get to the ...
Views: 1313 - My Husband Says He Has No Feelings For Me: I'm Pretty Sure My Husband Hates Me - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2021 from Maci AspenMy Husband Says He Has No Feelings For Me: I'm Pretty Sure My Husband Hates Me Does it seem like your marriage is losing its spark? Maybe it feels like the love isn't there anymore. This happens to the best of marriages, and it is also very easy to fix. Below, you will find some helpful tips ...
Views: 1389 - How To Talk To My Husband Without Fighting: When Couples Argue Constantly - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2021 from Maci AspenHow To Talk To My Husband Without Fighting: When Couples Argue Constantly The foundation for a healthy marriage, or any long lasting relationship for that matter, requires good communication skills. There are heated discussions and arguments in any marital relationship; although, steps ...
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